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I am in love with a woman who has a man.

we see each other when ever we can.

time has come to end what we was doing.

I LOVE this woman and she loves me.

how can i walk away without a fight.

I don't want to leave.

Yes, a difficult decision if you feel like you really love this woman.

However, if this woman loved you enough, she would finish with the man she is seeing and be with you. Is this woman married to or dating this man? Either way, she can still end the relationship and be with you, if she truly desires to be with you.

It is usually the woman that is in this situation of being the other woman, but you are the other man and regardless of the gender, it's not a good position to be in. You are settling for second best all the time and being short changed as you can't enjoy a fully open relationship with this woman you love so much. That must be pure torture!

Of course you don't want to leave her, but the alternative is to stay in a relationship with a women who you can only see when it suits her, as it is harder for her to sneak away. Also you have to be always covert about your relationship, how frustrating is this and there is no future or growth past a certain point in this type of relationship.

You want to be out and about on the town with your woman and be able to introduce her to everybody as your partner. You want to able to hold her in your arms in public without fear of somebody seeing you.

You want to buy her gifts without her having to hide them or to have to create a lie as to where they came from. All these things and more you cannot do if you are the other guy. It doesn't sound like a lot of fun to me.

At the end of the day, if this woman loves you, she would chose you over her present partner. It may be that she does really love you but she still chooses to be with her other partner for various reasons.

Either way, you are always going to be the other guy and always be having half a relationship.

Tell her how you feel and what you want. If you can't go on with this futile scenario, explain to her that you love her dearly, but you deserve better than this. Tell her you want a real relationship and despite the love you feel for her, you have to end the relationship.

At the end of the day, it is all up to you. Do you respect yourself enough to have more in your life?

I hope you do. :0)

I'm sorry to here about your current financial situation and family issues.

Off my head, I suspect your step daughter is entitled to half of what you made joint property with your ex husband if your ex husband left his assets to his daughter. Each country or state has a different law.

You need legal advice. Find a good lawyer and good luck! I hope other people who have not settled their estates with ex partners take heed of this!

Aaaah, bless you!

May your life be filled with much love and light and may you keep passing it on, as you already do! ;0)

Peace, Love, Light and Laughter!

i have found myself in a place where i always dreamed of being . especially with a new love that unexpectantly came like a whirl wind into my life .. Never knew a love like this. But i am frozen in fear and i desperatly need some outside ears.

Congratulations on getting your heart desires!

Do not blow it by self sabotaging yourself through fear.

Enjoy what the universe has bought to you. It may not be there forever, so live in the present and have no fear of the future.

Live the dream and enjoy the dream! ;0)

What is love to most people? Between a mother and children vs. love between a spouse. Does every one feel more love twards their children then they do their spouse? I intuitively know that it is more healthy to have a stronger bond and good relationship with a spouse vs. children, but I guess I don't feel this way. When your children are grown and out on their own you are left with your spouse, I have the feeling I & He will feel like aliens. Sugestions?

You raise a very good question that a lot of married couples ask when there children grow up and fly away from the nest to lead their own lives.

LOVE is LOVE. It isn't complicated, it isn't up against another love like one type of love versus another. There is only one type of love and it is unconditional and limitless. The majority of people in western culture are not up to and cannot (through choice) practice this level of love, which is the only love.

You're problem is, it seems during the many years of raising your children and all the distractions this brings, you have grown apart from your spouse and you don't know each other anymore. This happens to so many people, so don't feel odd.

Many women in particular make the mistake of putting all of their energy and all of their focus on being a mum and bringing up their children. They make their children their entire lives, so when the children leave, they are left feeling empty inside, lost, alienated and estranged from their partners. The poor husband got left out on the roadside along the way.

For the men, they usually get stuck into being the financial provider and feel as long as they are paying the bills and providing materialistically for the family, their job is done. They forget they have a wife, not just a mother of their children. They forget that their woman still needs their attention and to feel connected.

Being married and having children doesn't mean that mums and dads are allowed to neglect their spouses for their children...or anything else for that matter. All of the relationships within the family unit need to be honoured and nurtured. Especially the husband and wife union as this relationship effects the entire family unit, for better or for worse, more than the other types of relationships within the family.

Couples have to remember that growing and changing is natural and should be a welcomed aspect of being a human. In the process of growing there is no need to grow apart. It is when we have disconnected from our partners that we grow apart.

This is an opportunity for you! You have the pleasure of getting to know your husband all over again. It could be almost like dating him again, how much fun will that be! Don't let the feeling of disconnection end your marriage. Both of you need to acknowledge that you have grown apart over the years, so you know why you feel like aliens to each other. If you really love each other, you will work towards coming back together. Or maybe your life journey was to only be together to raise your children and now it is time to move on.

Only each of you will know how you really feel.

I suggest you talk to your spouse about what you are feeling. Chances are he may be feeling the same way. If you come together or you split up, this doesn't mean you love each other less or more. LOVE is LOVE.

If you love each other, you will make the right decision by each other. Whatever you decide, do it with LOVE.

I am a bit of an old romantic so I hope you work it out and stay together and have an even better relationship than you had when your children were around. A new relationship with a vigorous, strong and luminous love energy that will lead you to blissful places in your relationship you didn't even know were possible.

Don't fear the change. Life is a journey, not a one way track, so embrace the bends, forks in the road and new paths that lead you in a different direction and to a possible new destination. :0)

recently reunited with my ex.We were apart for over 1yr,& both missed

each other dreadfully, although with other people during our time

apart.I'm unsure as to whether I just need time to trust & love again,

or if we're just not right for each other as my feelings are all over

the place.Thanking you for taking time to consider my dilemaX

Do you have a problem trusting and loving your ex partner or is this just in general?

If you don't feel like you can trust and love your ex again, or maybe not just yet, then NO, don't go there again! You have to sort yourself out before you can have any hope of maintaining a happy and healthy relationship.

Your ex is an ex for a reason right? Did your ex finish with you or did you finish with the ex? You have to go over all of the reasons as to why you both split up in the fist place. if all of these reasons or problems have been resolved, and you both really feel like you want to give it another go, then go for it. Make sure you set some ground rules, so whatever went wrong last time, won;t happen again. The aim is to learn from our mistakes, not repeat them.

The fact that your feelings are all over the place, shows you are not really ready to get back with the ex. You have to enter a relationship from a place of calm and clarity, not confusion. You may both miss each other dreadfully, but that doesn't mean that getting back together is a good idea.

Think about what you really want in a relationship and don't rush into anything. :0)

sight and was touched. Everyday I tell myself to become a better

person and trust in the universe, because it must surely know what its

doing. I'm a great believer that whats for you wont pass you by and I

hope with all me heart that is true. I'm at a serious point in my life

where dramatic changes are happening and a relationship is being

tested by mistrust and doubts. Can you help

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Love and Light. MG

It sounds like to me you already have everything under control. ;0)

You have a very good understanding of yourself and what you believe the universe to be. As I have said before, I am not a fortune teller, so I can't tell you what will occur with the relationship and the doubts and mistrust, also you didn't give me any info about the relationship, so I don't know what is going on, but you sound like a super smart cookie, so I am sure you will handle the situation with wisdom.

All I can say is ,If your mistrust and doubts are based on your insecurities and fears, ignore them. If they are based on your intuition, LISTEN TO THEM!

I think you'll work it out easily. Good luck! :0)