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Week 10, 23 June 2008
 I think my
seatmate dislikes me cause I crampled the class hall pass but not on purpose, I
was in a hurry to the bathroom since our economics was almost starting but as I
got back to our class I noticed how crampled the pass was and I was afraid then
the presidents seatmate her friend called out to me with a voice and asked why
it was so crampled so much I told her I hold it too much...I'm a graduating
student and I don't want them to dislike me I just started school and I don't
want enemies, I prayed to God those moments will pass by in they're heads but I
don't want them to think bad of me.
I think that classmate of mine has gotten in the worst side of me, I hate
having enemies the most. I don't want to get angry with anyone because I have a
very bad temper and whenever i can't take it anymore I blow up. I don't want to
regret anything because of those little things so I meditate, pray to God and
focused on my studies better. I don't want to put a front with anyone at all.
 Oh
Pedochan!
Please don't worry your head about that... a crumpled pass is no big thing! You
seem so anxious! Smile! Enjoy your classes and do the best you can in your
studies...and then smile some more. Don't be afraid and when someone asks you a
question (like the silly question about the pass) or if they look at you
intently, or even if they just bump into you, make eye contact and don't let
your eyes look away, then smile and say something nice, ask a question about the
school's activites/schecdule, or very quickly and briefly compliment someone on
their answer in class- their clothes or hair... then smile again as you turn to
go say, "See you later" or something like that. Perhaps you could join a club
and make friends there. There is also a little book called "Don't Sweat the
Small Stuff" that may help you to keep things in perspective. Keep on smiling!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle
Dear Aunty
Elle... My life seems to be so complicated right now. I have a lot of things
going on and im not sure why im so indecisive. I got a new job and im happy,
seems like its gonna be great. But i didnt get into the school program i was
looking forward to. :( And then theres mom always saying i dont know what im
doing with my life being that im almost 23 she wants me to get married and
settle down. I dont know if im ready for any commitments.. i have a boyfriend of
1 year n some months but then i met someone amazing, and he treats me well too.
Now im thinking twice about everything.. What should i do?
Dear
Gori,
23 seems too young for you to be getting married and starting a family... you
need to grow more and so does your soulmate. Learn from your new job, enjoy your
friends and try to find a school program that is perfect for you... one that
will make your mother proud and give you the kind of opportunity to meet the
people you enjoy. When the time is right, it will happen!
Bountiful Blessings!
Elle
Dear Aunty
Elle... hey my name is elijah carradine
i just want to known how will my life take place
will i be a man of god and have money
how my heathy going to be good or bad
Dear
ec
That, my friend, is indeed a really powerful name you mention here! Nothing is
written in stone, mind you, but it seems that the role you could play would
indeed lead you to both, and, if you stay humble and give to others you should
stay healthy!
Bountiful Blessings!
Elle
Dear Aunty
Elle, I really hope you get this message. I have already sent 2 and hope that
you are guided to this one. I am wondering how to take the next step in my
career and hoping it will advance me to a more full-time spiritual path. Do you
have any suggestions? Also, I am beginning to become quite lonely as I have been
single for a year and a half now. Is it me choosing the wrong men? When will I
finally meet a good sincere man that I can have a real relationship with? Thank
you Aunty Elle, I appreciate your help.
Dear
AM
You are not exactly choosing the wrong men; you are sending out the wrong
signals so you choice gets limited to the wrong ones. It seems that your
spiritual quest could be done as a couple so you could start in that direction.
Your carreer could very well be bound that way too... An excellent means of
learning more about yourself and growing is internet soulmate seeking. When I
turned 52, my concerned daughter and her husband got me an i-Mac; they
subscribed me to a few sites; my son gave me computer lessons and I began
chatting on a forum that was on an Angelina Jolie fan site to try to help an
actor friend of mine. YOU don't need all that practice! Your soulmate is not
that nearby either, I feel. I was 9000 miles away from mine at the time although
we were born in the same county! There are many sites out there and many guys
who are looking for a fun fling at any age. I went on quite few of those sites
and paid none... I found out that on a Christian one, the guys were often not so
"Christian" nor had honorable intentions... on another one, I was so
out-of-the-box that when they chose my matches for me, there was no harmony at
all! I like mate1 because it's free for the ladies... must be the Scottish in me
LOL or the idea that when a man knows that HE has to pay but NOT the lady, then
SHE is not so desperate! Men often interprete women's actions as needy (when
they're not) enough as it is! So I suggest that you choose your site according
to how you feel about it. Look at the photos of the women on the site. If they
are mostly scantily clad, then the site is not for you. Listen to your inner
voice. Put your best foot forward and no sad stories please. Now for your
profile. Be truthful and charming. If you have a sense of humor, use it. Don't
forget to include all the things you like to do, that you used to like to do and
would like to do again... and then say that you would also like to discover and
learn new things in the future. Make it VERY clear that you are looking for a
HUSBAND with whom you can be best friends, lovers, travelling companions and
allies for a lifetime, facing the world and everything the future has to offer
together. You get rid of the guys with wrong intentions if you are
straightforward. Then start looking; pick and choose while waiting for the One
to show up. First choose the general aspects he MUST have... then look at ALL
the photos that have thus been sorted as FAST as you can! Eliminate every man
who you wouldn't want to hold you in his arms. That is not only your taste but
also your intuition at work! Now start reading profiles and do the same. You can
feel: green light, red light... don't think or make excuses! You can feel a good
heart, shyness or lies...better than you would imagine! Eliminate! Now choose
11... Enjoy getting to know them. Tell them the truth, that you're getting to
know a few other men as well and that you really like him and his..wit/kind
gentlemanly attitude/elegance ...etc. Little by little, these men will show
their true colors. Moreover, some that you didn't see will also contact you. If
you like one, fine, if not, gently let him down. When it fizzles with one and he
is no longer in your favorites, check out the newcomers that meet your criteria
and find out if you meet theirs! Some will just be fooling around, others are
not for you but... one day all these nice guys will seem to fade and you will
have eyes for only one who is becoming more and more vivid in your mind's eye
and present in your heart. If he has been faithfully writing (by the way never
send more than one message for each one of his- this needy thing turns guys off-
they often get it wrong but let's not confuse anyone OK?) then let him know that
you are losing interest in everyone except him. This is scary for him in spite
of the fact it is what he wants. So just wait if he doesn't answer... and if
STILL doesn't answer, start all over. He might write when he sees you're not...
er ...running after him LOL Otherwise find the wonderful man who is deserving of
your trust and love by keeping at it! Then, if he is willing to move mountains
to meet you, it's an excellent start at last ! (YOU must not be the one to do
all that!) Better than going to a bar or the town picnic, right? You'll find
each other! Enjoy the ride in the meantime!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle
Dear Aunty
Elle... A very good morning to you.
Im from India. Im very confused and need suggestion from you.
I think Im in love with 3 men and Im in a huge confusion whom to select.
Please help me...
LOL
Rana
Please forgive me! It seems that you have a male harem!
Joking aside, Rana, the one who promises the most is not the best provider,
the handsomest is not the best lover...
the one who makes your heart smile is the one for you.
Bountiful blessings!
Elle
Dear Aunty
Elle...
I am not in a great situation right now. I really like this guy (DS) at work
but I can't tell if he likes me back. There are times when he seems to and other
times when he doesn't. My friends set me up with this other guy (MM) and he
seems to really like me. The problem is although I think he is really
good-looking and a decent guy I don't have feelings for him. I am forcing myself
to like him so I can get over the other guy which isn't fair. Now I am pretty
sure that I have lead him on which isn't what I wanted to do. And my friends
think we are in a relationship and he thinks we have a potential relationship.
I've told him I want to get to know him better, go on dates before we get
serious but he doesn't understand that. He wants a serious girlfriend right now.
So I've been purposefully ignoring DS at work thinking I have no chance with
him and I might as well get with MM and maybe in the future I will have feelings
for him. But then when I do this he seems really hurt.
I don't know what to do. I have never been in a relationship before which is
why I am so scared in the first place. Plus I've never had guys that have shown
they like me.
Someone is going to end up getting urt here and it isn't going to be. I don't
even think DS will be either, it's going to be MM who was thrown into this.
I also uncomfortable with MM's age. He is turning 19 and I am turning 22. I
have a problem with the teen part. It makes me feel like I am going after a boy.
DS on the other hand is 30 and I've always liked older men.
I really could use some advice on this!
Dear
AND
Frankly I feel that 3 is a charm and that neither man is for you...however I
asked the Ouija and it says MM is for you, which got me to thinking that he will
not always be in his teens and that my own soulmate (& husband) is 8 years
younger than I am.... DS is the big baby- either he doesn't know what he wants
or he is playing with you just for fun.... whereas MM is a little in a hurry and
if he really cares he can wait while showing you how adult he can be!
Bountiful Blessings!
Elle
Dear Aunty
Elle... I`m in the middle of a crappy divorce, things are beginning to heat up,
I of course just want this to be done, any idea how much longer, I don`t know
how much more I have in me. I worry so much about my kids mostly. Everyhting
seems to be at a stalemate. My one saving grace is someone I have confided in
the most, he`s my light in a very dreary place, he`s been such a gift. Now I
fear I`ve got feelings for him and if I`m not to far off there`s something there
for him, maybe just my imagination but I`m curious. I wouldn`t never persue it
under the circumstances but I just wonder. We found each other thru such odd
events.He`s such a peaceful place in my life.......
Well
m,
None of the oracles can tell me, nor do I "get" anything as to how long your
divorce proceedings will last... but I did get something about your friend- he
is indeed the right one for you right now, but not for a lifetime. Sometimes we
are sent angels to help us through moments that are more than we could bear
otherwise. Tell yourself he is your angel and enjoy the time you have together.
I did ask what your soulmate's name was and all I got was "UNCLE"! I have no
idea what that could mean! Perhaps the oracle was saying "Uncle!" as in "I give
up"...we don't always find out what we'd like! In any case, hang in there
because the wheel turns and there will be a change for the better!
Bountiful Blessings!
Elle
Dear Aunty
Elle... maybe third time's a charm? I would really like some advice and I
haven't got anyone to talk to who I can totally trust. I have been really
unlucky in love...finding who I thought was my soulmate and then losing him. I
am now in the dating scene again and seeing this guy, but he's so emotionally
unavailable that I really don't know where I stand with him and after just
getting myself together again I don't want to get hurt. Could you please tell me
if this relationship is a waste of my time or how he really feels about me,
please?
Dear SG
You are not wasting your time, because every experience is preparing us for
what is to follow.
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A Fair Young Man
A young male either fair skinned or fair haired; either in body or soul. |
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Sad Disappointment or Trouble
Old gives way to new, growth comes through and stretches for the sun,
new seeds are planted and old roots are removed. How you deal with
life's obstacles dictates your life. SO take a deep breath, believe in
yourself face your obstacle head on and win. Aim for the stars – I
believe in you, and I’m not the only one. |
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Your Wish or Feasting
Star light, star bright, first star I see tonight, I wish I may, I wish
I might, wish this wish I wish tonight…. Understand that the magic that
surrounds the wish is as important as the wish itself. |
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A Child
Children are always… someone’s child. Daughter, Son, Niece, Nephew,
Godchild, Grandchild or even you. Now more so than ever reach out, find
that child, and nurture, care and forgive unconditionally. This is not a
give and take situation it is ALL GIVE - unconditionally. Give; that
they may grow. |
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A very Dark Woman
A female either very dark skinned or dark haired; either in body or
soul. |
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A Sick Bed
You have pushed and pushed and pushed and now it’s time to rest and rest
and rest, take advantage of this time. Think well. See yourself well.
Feel well. Your body is strong and determined, but your soul is wiser,
if you do not rest now, when you know you should… you will be sent a
firmer reminder. |
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A Present
A gift, a special, magical, wondrous gift is headed in your direction,
grasp it with both hands, hold on tight and live the moment. Yesterday
is history, Tomorrow is a mystery, Today is a gift - that's why it's
called the Present. |
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A Faint Heart
A faint heart at play here, be they feelings of regret, of lost
opportunities or simply a wanting that is not being fulfilled. It is up
to you though, YOU are really the only one responsible for your true
happiness no-one else can do it for you, truly believe in yourself and
you'll lead a life of magical journeys and sweet surprises. |
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A Journey
A vacation, a holiday, a trip or even just some time to yourself. A
journey is in store and every journey has it's own special story, there
is a lesson to learn here, find your own feet, learn who you really are.
Every journey starts with one step. Make a difference. Take a chance. |
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Fighting
You are at a standstill with someone or something, look within, search
your feelings, honestly and openly. Then step into their shoes,
experience the moment and look for a solution. |
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Money
At last! Money is on its way to you. No time for self doubt, this time
it's finally your turn - accept the money, you deserve it. You need to
appreciate (and share) this bounty. Remember also, that money does not
fix money problems, look deep within and you will find an answer to your
troubles. |
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Confinement
Four big dark heavy walls surround you. Pushing down, crushing your
soul, hard to breathe. Recognize where this pressure is from; home or
place of business or even within yourself. Then simply address this
situation; accept, forgive, move on. Learn to nurture your-self and you
will break free. The person responsible for your happiness is you –
that’s why it’s called your happiness – make a decision, be free, be
yourself, be happy. |
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A Roadway
Traveling via a roadway; destination unknown - you always need to move,
to move is to learn. Nature moves - water moves, if it does not it
becomes stagnant and stale. Spread your wings take heart and follow the
path. |
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Business Good Luck
The time is right! Take that chance, make a difference, the cards agree
Business Good Luck. A new career? A promotion? Time to open up your own
business? Believe in yourself and you'll reach the stars. |
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Each of your decisions can rewrite your future. Be happy in the present and
know that you are going to be the one to make the difference!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle
Dear Aunty
Elle...
I was just wondering, how can you tell if the relationship that you are in is
true or real? I was in a very unhappy and dysfunctional marriage, and right
after it ended I kind of jumped into a relationship with my best friend--well we
had been very close and the attraction was mutual for quite some time even
though i never would have acted on it--anyway for the most part it has been
great--in some ways I feel like he's my soulmate and I love him to death and
could foresee spending the rest of my life with him--but I can't help but
wonder, since I've been burned so badly, how do I know that things won't fall
apart again? Because I feel like I'm holding back from giving him my whole heart
out of fear of having it broken again.
Oh
my! st!
Give all your love all the time; you will never run out! Enjoy now, and keep
from jinxing your future! Never ever let the past keep you from living your
present...
Now if you need to feel more secure, use the "Loved One" reading from time to
time to find out what is on your soulmate's mind. I used it even before I ever
met mine...It kept me from making a few mistakes while helping me to understand
him better. It also a great meditation tool as are all the tarot drawings. As to
having our hearts broken, well, not only our lovers can do that.... I never
regret having loved. A broken heart hurts, it's true; and it got broken more
than once. But then my soulmates heart got broken too...and now- in this here
and now, our hearts fit together; whereas if we hadn't loved and bled, we would
not have become the two that make one! It seems that that is the way life works,
so that pieces are continually transformed and falling into and out of place in
the ever changing puzzle of the universe.
Bountiful Blessings!
Elle
I have been single
for 7 years and am very lonely now. I go online to meet men and it never works
out, when and where will I meet a gorgeous man who will love me as I am? xxxxxxx
Dear
NBM
7 years - the time is right to send out a message in a bottle out onto the
cyberspace-sea...
Please do read what I've wriiten about soulmate seeking sites.... No hurry, take
your time. I really don't understand people who visit one or two houses let
alone try to find The One! Try MateOne.com... It is free for the ladies... be
sure to read my soulmate seeking tips first! A gorgeous man, inside and and out
who is looking for someone just like you? So be it!
Bountiful Blessings!
Elle
Dear Aunty Elle... I
have contacted a few other psychics, one in general cut to the bone, because she
stated that I need a therapist to deal with all of the things that were inside
me. I had a very hard childhood, and it really influenced my adulthood. I didn't
turn to drinks or drugs, but I do settle alot,and give up easily, thinking that
I can't do it, or find an excuse to get out of things. On After I give up, I
then beat myself up about it. Do you see me ever getting out of this stupid
habit. I know this is why I am unemployed, broke, and struggling to be the best
mom I can be. How do I break this habit, because it is holding me back from the
life, I think, I am destined to have.
Goodness
KS!
It is indeed a tough thing to accomplish: reprogramming oneself!!!
There are a few ways to try not to have to wait for your next life!
YOU CAN DECIDE TO BE STUBBORN AND NEVER GIVE UP ON ANYTHING ... it has its
drawbacks because it is extreme; nevertheless, as your way of being swings from
one extreme to the other, after a while it will be easier to achieve a happy
medium. (No pun intended LOL)
YOU CAN DIVE IN WITH THE SINK OR SWIM METHOD.
This method is to jump into a challenge (making sure that you are beyond the
point of no return so that there can be no backing out) and JUST DO IT!!! I have
been fearful all my life, my spirit having been deeply engrained with the idea
that I could succeed aty nothing so why try? Consequently (and fortunately I am
a headstrong Taurus) I have consistantly used this method to prove to myself
that I CAN and with Talent and pizazz! I literally jumped into the deep end of a
pool to sink or swim and to kill the Dragon Fear that would never let me succeed
baby step by baby step... of course there were swimming instructors and
lifeguards nearby, but I was the only one who had to do it that way. Mind you
what is good for one is not always good for the other, but I have the feeling
your fear is similar to mine. So study yourself and figure out ways to trick
yourself into accomplishing things. Each time you do write it down in a journal
to remind yourself of your successes when your confidence is waning. You will be
reinforcing the new successful you and chasing away self doubt and
procrastination! Have fun!
Bountiful Blessings!
Elle
PS.. KS seeing a therapist is not
a sign of weakness or of giving in, in fact it shows courage and strength, and
could be a blessing in disguise. If you have issues you cannot resolve
internally then I too feel seeing a therapist may be exactly where you need to
be. It is ok to put your hand up and say, 'help me please' - what greater thing
alone does courage say.
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