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Week 3, 28th April 2008
  Name: Soria
Day: 14
Month: October
Year: 1965
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle...
Will I receive my money that I won, really get it in the mail or in my
bank account
 Oh
dear! Oh, Soria, I wish it were so! I wish that the alarm bells I am
hearing were wrong! But I cannot say what I do not feel... I am obliged
to tell you that if you receive a check, do not touch it even when it
shows credited onto your account, wait until your bank should
have really been paid, and you will discover the truth, otherwise, you
risk spending money that will be taken back from you as soon as your
bank realizes the fraud... moreover you may be asked to pay some kind of
fee to get your "prize" or some similar demand - NEVER pay ANYTHING! So
many people have lost all their savings in such scams! Please be careful
and notify your bank; they may have to protect your account!
Never mind, you will have many happy surprises all during your life!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle |
 Name: cm
Day: 24
Month: June
Year: 1979
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle... hi i only wonder if i will ever get
married because i am ready to give up in this department after all
my failed relationships. whenif ever do i meet this special someone?
what do i do wrong?
 Goodness gracious cm! If I had given up, I would not be so happy
now!
What's that got to do with you? EVERYTHING! You see, failed
relationships paved the way on my life-path too TOWARD my soulmate!
And so it will be with you as well, the good news is you won't have
to wait as long!
 What
do you do wrong? We-e-ell, I must say you must not adopt every puppy
that licks your hand! You deserve to be persnickety! No second
best, no making do, OK? I know it's not easy where you are... you
may have to change areas at least a bit... and no worries, child!
You are so young! I feel that you will sort of bump into each
other...before long, but not until you have made a few changes. Now
keep on the right track... if you find yourself attracting married
ones, or anyone else who has excuses for not committing, it is
because you are not ready either. That is just an example... you
know what I mean. You are learning and growing. You absolutely must
want a future spouse who will want to work to protect and take care
of you and who will appreciate what you do as well... it must be
your message to all the universe that you and your mate will be best
friends and lovers, loving life's adventures and each other,
ALWAYS... and then that is exactly who will come into your life!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle |
Name: ejb
Day: 1
Month: January
Year: 1900
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle... B.D. 7/18/59, brown hair, blue and
green eyes. I met a man a few years ago, unknowingly at first that
he is a priest (damage done). We have had many exchanges between us,
unspoken of course. Do you believe eyes can speak? Anyway, we have
had a few situtations between us and I laid it on the line on how I
felt about him. He reflects his thoughts on his web site weekly,
many items reflected about me. He listens to every word I say,
watches every move I make, etc... I can't seem to let this go, I
feel he is right for me and vice versa. I feel if he wasn;t
interested he would walk the other way, but he doesn't, he tests the
waters so to say. He blushes when he sees me, loss of words, yet he
still comes around. Any perspective on this? I really care for him
and would like to take the next step, properly of course. I decided
to let it fall where it may.
Oh my heavens child! Hmm- ejb, I think not. A priest, a married man,
a rock star, a lifer... the inaccessible love to obssess about
bringing to reality... the excitement, the fantasy, the adrenaline
buzz! I know you are miffed at me... yes I know! It seems the object
of your affection could be testing himself and his present calling,
not wanting to exclude you from the fold...wanting to include you
(much) more? The next step: "properly"?? - "Divorce" first,
courtship later... IF you are his "calling"... no free samples.
You
are worth more than that. It is a huge life lesson- perhaps an
unavoidable necessity for what would stem from it all. The dice are
not cast... you are standing at a crossroads that will determine
what other paths you will follow and what other lessons must be
learned. The truth will set you free... and the truth is elsewhere.
In "fall where it may" "fall" is the keyword... You will see, some
time from now that the road not taken would make (or would have
made) all the difference... what you yearn for is not exactly what
is set before you at the moment. How you choose will approach you to
it or distance you from it.
Bountiful blessings!
Elle |
 Name: Cesi Blue Eyes MCI
Day: 22
Month: May
Year: 1968
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle...I am at crossroads in my life, I feel
lost, scared of being alone and I don't have a job. I am leaving a
relationship which has been dead for years and I am in another one
at the moment very complicated. I love this guy(MMC) but I don't
know if it's all worth it or if he is the right person for me. He
tell's me how dear I am to him and how special I am to him and how
happy he is that he met me. When I am with him nothing matters
arround us. We have so many similarities and sincronicities about us
that amazes me and scares me at the same time. Can you please give
me some guidance about where is my love life heading to and if I
will get a job soon?
 Oh sweet Cesi blue eyes... MCI ! It is O so true that you are at a
crossroads! The signs says you are on the right path and that you
can rest in the arms of MMC, but not too long! He means what he says
now, so enjoy! He's right for you and you for him in the here and
now- it is not complicated if you just live in the present. The
future has other surprises in store. While basking in that warmth
and while boosting him as well, consider the paths within reach- a
new job (jobS !) from the least expected source... a new horizon, a
new nesting place... exclude nothing, you will be surprised! The sky
is the limit- fly! You are magic!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle |
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 Name: sn
Day: 13
Month: October
Year: 1964
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle... tell me how can i avoid workplace
jealousy .... i am a good worker.. sorry but it is true that i am
very good looking ... and the boss irespective of who has come is
always attracted towards my beauty and intelligence.. i avoid being
closer to them.. but they always have to depend on my work... this
make other jealous.. advice
 Okay sn, you know what sweetheart? In your workplace, try to be
bright, lovely and efficient but NOT ready-to-go-out-on-a-date
gorgeous! Your boss seems respectful and polite enough nevertheless,
you don't know what he really thinks or says behind your back and
worse, harassment may be but an office party away... trouble is
avoidable. Practice the after-work metamorphosis in the ladies' room
if you like but stay humble yet elegant and dignified during work
time without uglifying yourself. Study your work look and the way
higher-ups dress... and dress as if your next job should be
up and not down... I know you are not like that,
I'm just saying, "Don't tempt the devil." and you will avoid more
than jealousy. Moreover, you will make friends, allies and
professional progress by leaps and bounds!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle |
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Name: vanessa
Day: 2
Month: September
Year: 1974
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle... I'm a firm believer in fate which is why
I feel that when I first met Chris a year I felt it was ment to be.
6months later he left me saying it wasn't working then went straight
into a relationship with someone else.
We have been apart 1 year now and I've accepted this and the pain is
slowly easing. Now I feel totally lost as in I'm stood still while
everyone is whizzing past me, how can I get back on my path that I
should be walking, what's going on with me?
LnL
Oh
Vaness'! The world is whizzing by is it? Just let it, until it slows
down enough for you to speed up and step on... You were right Chris was
meant for you THE TIME HE WAS IN YOUR WORLD! You are stuck because you
think it should have worked and you are depressed about that. The thing
is, it DID work for as long as it was supposed to. Chris learned what
life lessons he was meant to and you are stuck in limbo because you were
counting on forever, however, you did grow and learn during that time.
Now Vanessa, instead of dwelling on what you believe is lost, ponder on
what you learned and how you grew when you were with him. That is what
you've gained! What would you have changed? What would you rather have
in the future? Enjoy this reflection period... then start enjoying new
places and experiment on what you need to be doing for yourself before
worrying about Mr. Next. You have to reprogram yourself to find things
fascinating, beautiful or amusing for YOURSELF! Enjoy your path! Mr.
Next may very well be Mr. Forever if you can only enjoy yourself for
yourself!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle |
Name: M T
Day: 23
Month: June
Year: 1964
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle... I fell in love with a musician I
dated a few times then Committment was a scary word, and he left,
but we have an Empathetic link. His friends discourage him from
seeing me, and persuade him to flirt online, I can feel it all, at
night it drives me mad trying to sleep thru it. I've had bad luck
losing money like water. Will I get through this to either reunite
with this musician or find another? And pull through my debt
problems, I need to sell my pony to repay my dad. Reassurance wanted
thanks!
Oh my oh my , MT, musicians do manage to strike the empathetic
chords with us ladies don't they!? I know and used to work with many
of them... even hung out and partied with quite a few including
celebs but you know, the odds are against commitment in the life
they lead... one can go a way on the road with them but it seems
they like to flit from flower to empathetic flower instead of
settling down... "Your" butterfly doesn't need to be encouraged in
that direction; it comes naturally! If you wish to live in that
world, your best bet is to become a venue manager or a booking agent
but that won't guarantee any long term commitment. It's just not
what happens 99 per cent of the time. I know it makes your heart
beat faster... but then you know why it beats faster and it's not
only love. That life-style is not good for you; it makes you do and
consume the wrong things, spend and lose more money and sleep
less than you should and then the real world catches up with you and
you lose the respect of friends and family and have to sell your
pony to try to do right by them. Tell your father to sell your pony
for you so that you won't lose the money or be tempted to
squander it before you get a chance to pay him back. You need to
turn your life around and take no more risks with your heart, your
money, your life. I KNOW it's fascinating but it's not for you! Do
everything you need to stop the hemorrhage. You know what it is! You
are ready to take a leap of faith and do it! You CAN do it! YOU
should be somebody's star, sweetheart! No lie! You will meet some
one soon who'll think the world of you! Make yourself ready and he
will find his way into your arms.
Bountiful blessings!
Elle |
 Name: SL
Day: 10
Month: October
Year: 1979
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle...
You seem very worldly! Nice to meet you!
What do you think it means when one constantly sees someone's
birthday, initials, name, etc, all around them? (Yes, I DO know this
person, too...) Would you say this is a soulmate connection and these
are simply confirmations?
Thanks...
Hi SL...
"...these foolish things remind me of you" the song goes. Whenever
I had a crush on or was in love with someone, ZILLIONS of things
reminded me of him. His favorite color or food, his scent, his home
team, the brand of jeans, a song, his initials YSL ....
I would like to say yes, but it is simply the universe telling you
that your mind is stuck on that person... not that it's wrong, mind
you. Now if you win a free ticket to a concert and he is sitting
next to you or if you go to the party you did everything to avoid
and he bumps into you, spills a drink on you, and absolutely wants
to buy you a new top... well THAT would be synchronicity and the
whole universe trying to unite you for sure!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle |
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Name: gcf
Day: 12
Month: June
Year: 1961
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle...
In two months i will be 47, and i think it is only now that i have
found my soulmate when i can say everything has been in place in my
life. is it too late for me? Is he really my soul mate in the first
place? Do i learn to forget him and go on with my established life
instead?
Have you seen Clint Eastwood's beautiful movie: "The Bridges of
Madison" ? The woman meets her great love... Her faithful loving
husband and her children had settled into a comfy routine in their
established life with her... routine. No cruelty, no juvenile
delinquents, just routine. She had to choose and she chose: routine
and dusty love.
It broke their soulmate-hearts but she chose, and he accepted her
choice but loved her and only her until he died. ...but then so did
her husband and children in their routine way full of confidence in
her and their Norman Rockwell life... I'm not saying that that is
what you must do... it is just food for thought and very
revelatory... my word!
Your choice? It is one of your life-lessons to have to make that
choice; I cannot be the one to dictate your choice, nor even whisper
or hint at the answer, but I can tell you to ask yourself the
questions that will help you. Can you have your cake and eat it too?
Can you live your shiny all new passion/love/sharing until the shine
wears off...or until it becomes shinier? Who will you hurt? How can
you avoid hurting anyone? In my case, my husband and I divorced from
a justice of the peace 14 year union because we no longer husband
and wife (another story)... There was no one just after that.Then
the second was a split up from a 14 year relationship with my best
friend and lover because he was no longer my best friend and
lover... then a 7 year period of celibacy and helping my children
stay on track to become a happy thirty-something because I never
stop being a mother... and now I am starting a new life with my
soulmate blessed by God, my children and all the other angels!
In your case I feel this may only be a test and a wake up call... or
perhaps a parenthesis in your life. The French say, "Don't drop your
catch for a bigger shadow."...I say "You may test the waters to see
if you'll sink or swim...or if you'll miraculously walk on
them...but keep one foot on the shore and don't drown anybody!"
Bountiful blessings!
Elle |
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 Name: c
Day: 30
Month: January
Year: 1977
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle...
i m pregnant but i don t know if the dad loves me i think he 's
having another relationship with a guy i think he does nt tell me
but i prefer he would for me it 's the secret and lie that are the
problem is this true or does he have another woman or nobody and
does he love me?
Oh Sweetheart I can't tell you... I must not. In this case it's not
my job.
However I like what you say sweet c! Tell him that you'll love and
respect him as the Dad of your child and that you hope he'll love
and respect you as the Mom of his child. Tell him that pregnant
women get all kinds of fears and ideas and constantly need to be
reassured and feel protected and loved. Tell him that if he loves
another man or another woman; that is not what is important. Tell
him that secrets and lies are poison, and bad for everyone. Tell him
to be truthful and love you the best he can and that you will do the
same. You need his support and somehow he needs yours. You are a
wonderful brave little lady! You will manage to pull through and you
will be happy!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle
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Name: KH
Day:
2
Month: February
Year: 1959
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle... I am very concerned about two people who
are far away and want to know if they will be safe and make it here on
their journey
Yes, KH, you
are right to be concerned, but as things stand, everything is alright.
Would everyone reading this please say a prayer for guidance,
protection, and a safe trip for these loved ones?!
Thanks and bountiful blessings to you all!
Elle
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Name:
DSRL
Day: 19
Month: July
Year: 1961
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle... I made a deal with my hubby - that
I would not fiel for divorce until he has a job and moves out of
our home. He is waiting now to find out if he qualifies for
financial aid so he can go to school. We are trying to keep this
relationship amicable and friendly, but I just want him to go. I
keep trying to find out when that will happen but never get any
answers.
Can you help with that?
Oh NO! No
deals! Well anyway all deals are off because THE DEAL was to GET
A JOB... and NOT to WAIT to get financing to go to school, THEN go
to school and THEN "look" for a job!!! That could take years for
Heaven's sake! Your hubby would like to crawl back into childhood
and he is stalling like a little boy who doesn't want to do his
chores or go to bed! You are not his Mom!
If he won't leave then you must be the one to leave, sorry to say.
Get rid of your home. You are being taken advantage of, purely and
simply. Young adults (whose parents are obliged to practice "tough
love" to keep their kids from becoming lazy parasites) do better
than that; they find a job, any job, a place to stay- maybe share,
and then they work to pay for night courses or correspondence
courses to better themselves and move up in life without leeching
off anybody! Some even create their own businesses!
You need to get out and away and live your life free of all this!
Only then will he start to grow up, if ever, and THEN and only then,
will you be able to have an adult friendly and amicable
relationship. He may even thank you just like my son thanked me! You
will be doing him a favor; he must face his life, choose his path,
and LIVE. Right now, as it stands, things are barely calm and a
childish tantrum is not far off. You can get on with your life if
you don't let your aversion to confrontation get in the way. YOU can
keep it quiet even if he shouts; YOU can be the adult and
diplomatically spell it out for him. If it gets too ugly, be ready
to leave. Plan ahead, plan for support and witnesses, plan plan
plan... file file file... and you will succeed!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle
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Name: ejb
Day: 1
Month: January
Year: 1900
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle... B.D. 7/18/59, brown hair, blue and
green eyes. I met a man a few years ago, unknowingly at first
that he is a priest (damage done). We have had many exchanges
between us, unspoken of course. Do you believe eyes can speak?
Anyway, we have had a few situtations between us and I laid it
on the line on how I felt about him. He reflects his thoughts on
his web site weekly, many items reflected about me. He listens
to every word I say, watches every move I make, etc... I can't
seem to let this go, I feel he is right for me and vice versa. I
feel if he wasn;t interested he would walk the other way, but he
doesn't, he tests the waters so to say. He blushes when he sees
me, loss of words, yet he still comes around. Any perspective on
this? I really care for him and would like to take the next
step, properly of course. I decided to let it fall where it may.
OK ejb, here
goes... The almost inaccessible love- whatever the reason, law,
religion, fame, fortune, tradition or general belief- leads to
obsession, fantasy, the adrenaline buzz, and insomnia. Married man,
President, Boss, Rock Star, Priest, Psychiatrist, Movie Star, your
father's best friend or worst enemy... 15 years older or younger
than you, teacher, student...etc etc ...or any combination of
several of the above. He looked at me and our eyes said everything!
He blushed! So did Jim Morrison and Elvis! They really did LOL I
even met, spoke to and kissed one of them, guess which! That didn't
mean much except at that instant! I do believe that the object of
your flame does care but not in the way you might think.
It seems that a sort of transfer is going on as well. He is
resisting temptation the best he can without anger or repulsion. He
is aware of the test and that he has a choice. His choice is not to
push you out of the fold because of attraction. There is no way for
you to take the next step "properly". It is up to him; he is
''married''. If he chooses "divorce", then you will have a green
light. Otherwise "fall" would indeed be the appropriate choice of
words, and because you care, you wouldn't want that, now would you?
Bountiful blessings!
Elle
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You are jinxing yourself when you do that. I know it's hard for
you... you may even have to leave everything to be free. You will
have help! You know where to look... just take the first step. Then
tiny step by tiny step you will gain confidence. Strengthen
yourself. Do anything and everything that will make you stronger.
Little by little. Get more and more independence and knowledge. Then
protect yourself with new and old friends and get that divorce. Life
will smile at you again!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle
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Name: gz
Day: 4
Month: April
Year: 1963
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle...TJ and I had words , we are not
speaking now, He hurt me and I do not wish to talk to him. It is
sad because we were so close and had made plans. I felt this was
special, His birthday is Dec 23rd.
Where is my future now?
Hmmm gz....
It IS sad. You were so close and your plans were so wonderful. Wait
until the hurt is not so sharp and then write your feelings so as
not to get too emotional. Then think it over, can this special
relationship be salvaged? I think you may hear from TJ and then you
can read what you wrote again and decide to give the page to him or
not and then try to let your relationship bloom again. If TJ cannot
manage to contact you perhaps you could send him the note expressing
your feelings about what was said and how you are sad that it
destroyed your special relationship and the plans you had made
together. You can't pretend nothing happened but you can try to
minimize the effect! The outcome is hanging in balance, your
words should be carefully chosen. However, you and TJ are at a
crossroads and if you decide to move on, you will have new plans for
a totally different future!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle
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Name: Laura
Day: 16
Month: March
Year: 1974
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle...I'm in love with a friend of mine,
and have been for years. He's in love with me too (I know this,
despite certain appearances to the contrary) but we just can't
get together due to our fears, our lack of trust, and some very
complicated circumstances. It's hard to know something this
deeply and this certainly yet to have no real choices! I'm
trying to move on, but it's been rough. Thanks for listening...
You do know
that you were together before and that you will be together again,
don't you Laura? Be happy that you can be friends in this lifetime
and cherish this different kind of love. You have all eternity! You
will be touched by someone else's sweet and wonderful heart and you
will be relieved that you have not complicated things!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle
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Name: solveig
Day: 26
Month: May
Year: 1954
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle... I lost my job.Will I get another
job.
Best regars
Solveig
 Yes
you will Solveig! Change your look a slight bit. Don't get
depressed and neglect yourself now; shower, deodorant, toothbrush,
floss and toothpaste, shampoo, clean clothes etc everyday. Smile,
visit everybody you that you can or e-mail or call. Knock on
doors... just walk in! Leave a clean imaginative resume
everywhere...
Funny thing is- I feel that you must do all that but
that the job will come from elsewhere! And a question comes to
mind: Have you considered working with dogs???!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle
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Name: darlene
Day: 23
Month: May
Year: 1959
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle... My partner woke up one morning and told me
that our 21/2 year relationship was over and that the wedding was off.
We just bought a new home together. I have gone to therapy to try to get
over her, but I am still madly in love with her. Now she tells me that
she is straight after three female relationships over 15 years. We are
both in our mid forties. She has changed her hair color and style and
refuses to speak to me. It has been about a year. Any advise to help me
would be appreciated. I love her very much and I miss her. We were
extremly happy together. I just don't understand. Please help.
Well darlene,
at first I read ''21 1/2 years'' and I grieved for your lost love and
now that I see ''2 1/2'' correctly, I can still feel how you suffer.
Time makes no difference here. Sexual orientation has nothing to do with
it either, a horrible painful loss is what it is. You know- the
temporary that could have lasted vs. the finality... the permanent
commitment, house purchase, wedding plans and all that just couldn't be
as easily accepted as one would suppose. Something snapped and she IS
straight all of a sudden! Like a switch that had been flipped! It could
flip back but sadly, not for the love of you. The therapy idea is fine,
but a change in therapy or therapist would be a good idea. Post
traumatic shock or hypnosis therapy might help more. Dwelling on it is
not a good idea. Turn the page, even though your heart doesn't want to,
just go through the motions and the heart will follow. Get rid of
everything you shared and spoil yourself. Travel! Smile! ...after a
while it will be real! Change YOUR look and seek new hobbies... a new
kind of home, a new club... you may even discover a new talent... I feel
that brighter days are not far around the bend! All this is only a life
lesson for future happiness... a necessary "evil" - just wait and see!
Have fun in the meantime as if your life depended on it! Because it
does!!!
Bountiful Blessings!
Elle
PS I keep getting something to do with horses concerning you darlene...real
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Name: DM
Day: 12
Month: January
Year: 1989
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle... i would love to know if me and my
boyfriend will ever have kids in the future and will we enjoy
our holiday
You will enjoy
your holiday and each other, DM... Nevertheless, I don't believe
that you should have kids with this boyfriend... Heaven knows why,
that's for sure! That's all I got! Nothing is written in stone mind
you, but if I were you, I'd wait a while... it seems things will
change and you'll be glad you did wait!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle
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Name: kms
Day: 1
Month: January
Year: 1985
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle...
Hello there, I was wondering if you can help me? I've been
seeing this guy, and i was wondering if his the one? And if my
money problems are gonig to change soon?
Hello there
kms!
He's the one for a while, I should say, and that's fine.
About money: Obsess about it: write down EVERY penny you spend and
on what; don't tell ANYBODY how much you have or don't have. Don't
buy anything for anybody- not even a soda -until you are out from
under. Lend nothing. Ask for money for your birthday and holidays
instead of gifts. Make a goal of earning what you spent the month
before plus 10%... and then spend 10% less than you did the month
before the following month. Sell or give as gifts what you haven't
used in the last 12 months... use only that money for gifts. Go
shopping in thrift shops. Make it a hobby to find or invent a cool
well paying job...
You will do wonders!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle
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Bountiful blessings!
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Name: Midge
Day: 24
Month: September
Year: 1976
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle...
Hello from the Philippines!
I'm currently in love with one of our consultants at work and I
have a strong suspicion that he may be the right man.
Unfortunately, I'm more than a little scared as it's been five
years since my last relationship ended, he's six years younger
than me, and he's Chinese - and the Chinese community here in my
country has definite ideas as to who their kids get to marry and
I probably don't fit the bill.
His name is Wayne and his birthday's 11 July 1982. I'd
appreciate any help you can send over my way. Thanks, Auntie
Elle!
Well
well Midge! You are modern enough! And so is he! He is the one who
must deal with his family problems.... so let him decide if you fit
the bill or not... and if he is man enough to fight for you! But
remember to be the perfect lady. Unfortunately, many men enjoy the
favors of women outside their culture but when it comes to
commitment, they marry within their community. Thus warned, you can
go forward, but with caution! You should have all kinds of different
interesting conversations about philosophy, religion, the
arts, politics, economy, tradition... and this subject. Then you can
gracefully ask what his position and opinions on this subject
are..and what he would do in such a case. My feeling is that you
will like what you hear... then you can seize the opportunity to
say,"I am very pleased to know that!"
Bountiful blessings!
Elle
PS My husband is 8 years younger than I am.
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Name: dk
Day: 1
Month: January
Year: 1900
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle...I recently ordered an astrology
report from 'jenna' who I found on this website. Long story
short, she's a fraud as reported by many who have asked for her
guidance. She seemed so warm and 'psychic' from previous
correspondences with her and I really needed some good advice.
Now I feel betrayed and have a bad sense about others who claim
such things. It's disconcerting to have such a thing happen when
I was finally trying to seek some outside advice. I am intuitive
myself and I feel like the rug has been pulled out from under
me...like why wasn't my intuition stronger not to warn me about
this. I was simply looking for guidance and got burned. Ouch!
Any input you may have on my situation would be most welcome at
this time. Thank you and I hope you are coming from a better
place.
Wow I'm sorry
that she disappointed you dk! I think that we end up by having to
disappoint at least some people as we are far from perfect.
I have already received so many requests that I have fallen way
behind and the quality of what I do may suffer if I'm not careful! I
think you are pondering way too much and that simplifying the
situation should help.
Bountiful blessings!
ElleEDIT: Hello DK, This
is now the third time I have heard about this particular site and
lady - I did not know of her, I too am sorry that this happened. I
can offer you this - I will ban her ads from appearing on my site -
I believe she is a big advertiser.
I have in the past banned other sites
and I will forgo any advertising dollars that are received via
deceptive means. The Universe will find other advertisers - who walk
in the light.
Thank you for writing in and letting
us know.
Bright Blessings
Jen
PS... advertisers take 48 hours to
disappear - would you please let me know if you see her
advertisements on the site after Tuesday (jenATnewagestore.com).
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Name: JE
Day: 10
Month: July
Year: 1985
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle...
I am very lost in love. I have a sweetheart I've known for quite
some time. He and I were close friends, dated (for a year) and then
drifted apart. In my heart, I knew he always loved me, I just knew
it, no matter what seemed to be happening. In the end, I was right;
he came back to me and we reconnected. Since then, we've been seeing
each other, though not in a solid relationship. My problem is that
he confuses me and lately it seems more so than ever. Things will be
peachy between us for several months when suddenly he'll pull away
from me, no explanation. I try to be understanding and give him his
space, I even try not to bombard him with "emotional" talks (he
doesn't respond well to these when he pulls away and as the
situation is fragile I try not to push it.) I love him still, so
very much but these push and pulls are slowly eroding my faith, both
in myself and that we'll make it through this troubling time. It
certainly doesnt help that he has female friends and I know that
some are attracted to him. I dont want to give up on us, but I feel
so despondent, so unattractive (for lack of a better word) I dont
know what else to do- not even my friends know what to tell me. Any
advice or words of wisdom would be so greatly appreciated Elle.
Aw sweet
JE! This is the typical Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus
thing! You must have read it! You must by all means avoid "The Talk"
and whenever a man withdraws, never ever follow him! You say
something and he withdraws... to digest it... Don't give him
indigestion! There is also an e-book call Catch Him and Keep Him by
Christian Carter that is enlightening although you have to have a
lot of sales resistance to keep from buying all the sequels that
they tempt you with! Anyway it boils down to this: He is behaving
like a man. The push and pull elastic band thing is normal and the
less you insist during the withdrawal moment the shorter it will
last. It does not mean that you cannot leave a nonchalant message
about doing something somewhere and if he wants to join you, you'll
be there between such and such a time LOL Your problem is how to get
to the
next step. Research research research! Study study study!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle
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Name: a
Day: 5
Month: February
Year: 1982
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle...
I love a guy alot. but thing is i am not sure if he loves me or
not and also he is of different cast. he told me that he want to
marry his cast girl due to which i stopped myself from proposing
him. I want to know whether i will marry him or not? please
answer me back.
Hello a,
It saddens me to say that if you "propose him" he may spend some
time with you but then marry a girl in his cast. You did well to
keep quiet! You do have a small chance but give him only what a girl
of his cast would and nothing more. If he is smitten by you and
wants to marry you despite your different casts, then you must have
an official proposal and remain with a chaperon at all times until
the wedding night! You would be heart broken if you gave yourself to
him and then he backed out! Whatever he says, if he loves you he
will wait- if not, he will go with a girl from his cast toward a
different destiny. It is in his hands! It is in the balance sweet a,
don't get your hopes too high as he has warned you that he intends
to marry a girl of his cast... nevertheless, I feel that he may have
said that to find out your feelings by seeing how you would react!
Like I say, it is in the balance at this point in time. You just
stay your charming, intelligent and gracious self!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle
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Name: dd
Day: 1
Month: January
Year: 1900
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle... Hello! My question is, are B. and I
going to meet like my dreams and tarot readings are telling me?
And would it possibly be in July at the Jersey shore?
Thank you!
DD I don't get
that you'll meet exactly but you will see B... the opposite is not
true... whatever that means!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle
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Name: Deb
Day: 29
Month: March
Year: 1973
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle:
I hope you are doing well. Our office was robbed a few weeks ago and
I just need some advice. Amongst other things, our mainframe
computer was stolen. My best friend, who is also the owner of the
company, has become obsessed with finding this computer. Actually,
so have I. Not only was our entire company on this computer, but
also my entire personal life. We have contacted several psychics,
one being Micki Dahne, and have plenty of information to go on, but
nothing will prove who did it or lead us to the computer. What
should we do? We really need this computer back, but it is also
taking it's toll on us in every way possible.
I feel so lost without this computer. I can't function in the
business, I lost my children's pictures, and I am just plain
exhausted.
Please give me advice on this!!!
Hello,
thank you Deb- I'm doing well - just preoccupied... I wish I could
answer more letters faster! Anyway, I'm so sorry about the theft
Deb. but it's for the best you'll see. It could have been any
office, any computer- they are not interested in the content,
rather just fast cash. They are not thinking clearly. They will
steal again and again and they will be caught but it will do no
good- the computer has already changed hands and much is deleted.
One good side is that it's a blessing in disguise! Don't dwell on
it! Karma payback is already in motion. So it's no longer your
problem and if you get to work, you'll see a new bigger better
picture. Learn from this! Speaking of pictures it seems that you
have sent some so you can go from there! All is not lost!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle
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Name: maria
Day: 1
Month: October
Year: 1957
Comments: please let me know if i will meet anybody soon who i can trust
and love,have been on my own for 14 years since i lost my husband found
him dead on the floor.my girls worry about me.
Well maria...
you've got me beat by 7 years! I was alone for 7 not 14- not that there
weren't any suitors out for a good time, there were quite a few. That's
not what we need now is it? When I turned 52, my concerned daughter and
her husband got me an i-Mac; they subscribed me to a few sites; my son
gave me computer lessons and I began chatting on a forum that was on
an Angelina Jolie fan site to try to help an actor friend of mine. YOU
don't need all that practice! Your soulmate is not that nearby either, I
feel. I was 9000 miles away from mine at the time although we were born
in the same county! There are many sites out there and many guys who are
looking for a fun fling at any age. I went on quite few of those sites
and paid none... I found out that on a Christian one, the guys were
often not so "Christian" nor had honorable intentions... on another one,
I was so out-of-the-box that when they chose my matches for me, there
was no harmony at all! I like mate1 because it's free for the ladies...
must be the Scottish in me LOL or the idea that when a man knows that HE
has to pay but NOT the lady, then SHE is not so desperate! Men often
interprete women's actions as needy (when they're not) enough as it is!
So I suggest that you choose your site according to how you feel about
it. Look at the photos of the women on the site. If they are mostly
scantily clad, then the site is not for you. Listen to your inner voice.
Put your best foot forward and no sad stories please. Now for your
profile. Be truthful and charming. If you have a sense of humor, use it.
Don't forget to include all the things you like to do, that you used to
like to do and would like to do again... and then say that you would
also like to discover and learn new things in the future. Make it VERY
clear that you are looking for a HUSBAND with whom you can be best
friends, lovers, travelling companions and allies for a lifetime, facing
the world and everything the future has to offer together. You get rid
of the guys with wrong intentions if you are straightforward. Then start
looking; pick and choose while waiting for the One to show up. First
choose the general aspects he MUST have... then look at ALL the photos
that have been sorted as FAST as you can! Eliminate every man who you
wouldn't want to hold you in his arms. That is not only your taste but
also your intuition at work! Now start reading profiles and do the same.
You can feel: green light, red light... don't think or make excuses! You
can feel a good heart, shyness or lies...better than you would imagine!
Eliminate! Now choose 12... Enjoy getting to know them. Tell them the
truth, that you're getting to know a few other men as well and that you
really like him and his..wit/kind gentlemanly attitude/elegance ...etc.
Little by little, these men will show their true colors. Moreover, some
that you didn't see will also contact you. If you like one, fine, if
not, gently let him down. When it fizzles with one and he is no longer
in your favorites, check out the newcomers that meet your criteria and
find out if you meet theirs! Some will just be fooling around, others
are not for you but... one day all these nice guys will seem to fade and
you will have eyes for only one who is becoming more and more vivid in
your mind's eye and present in your heart. If he has been faithfully
writing (by the way never send more than one message for each one of
his- this needy thing turns guys off- they often get it wrong but let's
not confuse anyone OK?) then let him know that you are losing interest
in everyone except him. This is scary for him in spite of the fact it is
what he wants. So just wait if he doesn't answer... and if STILL doesn't
answer, start all over. He might write when he sees you're not... er
...running after him LOL Otherwise find the wonderful man who is
deserving of your trust and love by keeping at it! Then, if he is
willing to move mountains to meet you, it's an excellent start at last !
(YOU must not be the one to do all that!) Better than going to a bar or
the town picnic, right? You'll find each other! Enjoy the ride in the
meantime!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle |
Name: jd
Day: 15
Month: August
Year: 1965
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle...
I need some advice on my current job situation. I have changed jobs
3 times in the last 18 months due to the companies i obtain
positions in have financial difficulties and I have had to move on.
The current job I have seems to be having similiar financial
problems to the other jobs but I have been told that i will get a
promotion but no pay rise. I wonder whether they are using me up but
there will be no long term prospects. what would you do in this
situation. I have been applying for new positions that I think I
would like but have had no luck whats so ever.How can you know when
you take on a job what it is really like. I did try and suss out the
financial position of this current company but was told the
prospects were good and sales were increasing none of which was
true. The company was listed on a website and had previously won
many awards. Current management is talking the situation up and
trying to make improvements but so far nothing concrete has
eventuated. what do you think I would like your perspective if you
have time. Many thanks J
Dear J,
This happened to me for a few years too. A strange thing. A
series... I learned a lot in those jobs... but I lost my jobs due
to each company's own difficulties. In each case, they took
advantage of their employees and under-paid everyone including me.
They always had good reasons to do this or that but they were
keeping the money greedily. We had to move on but they had to face
the consequences of their greedy and sometimes dishonest mentality.
Their businesses failed. This led to a new path: I became a
consultant to advise businesses how to improve. The bosses hated my
advice but they had paid for it so I suppose they thought that if
they followed it and failed they could get reimbursed. But their
businesses thrived and grew with happy employees and happy customers
until they backslid and went back to their old ways. My biggest
customer was a theme park in France. Huge.
All this to say you are in a karmic phase in which you have a lesson
to learn and that the situation will repeat itself in this lifetime
until you have learned what you are supposed to. I feel that you
should:
1) learn to listen to your inner voice and pay attention to the
warning signs.
2) understand that you are worth more than the jobs you find.
3) know that you should not accept a 'promotion'' that is heaping
more responsibility on your shoulders for less pay- yes less because
you will inevitably have to invest more time... They will respect
you even less than they do now... they smirk behind your back about
this, you know that! So it is your turn to laugh inside.
Refuse, thanking them for appreciating your value and for the offer,
and say that you will continue to be the same conscientious and
valuable employee but that you would rather wait for a promotion
with the corresponding financial raise. They may even sneakily
threaten you... implying deviously that they will have to let you
go... and they very well may... in that case you have to call their
bluff. A friend of mine refused and they ended up by giving her her
raise. However, I am afraid that the difficulties will worsen until
you respect yourself and your value more deeply. Instead of looking
for positions that you think will suit you - with no luck - develop
a higher opinion of yourself and your worth and seek higher not
lower! You will be surprised!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle
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Name: R.R.
Day: 29
Month: July
Year: 1963
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle... I would like to know if my soul mate
will try to come back into my life soon, and if he is grieving as
much as I have been. Will he try to contact me? If so, how?
Dear RR
For some reason the person you are referring to is not grieving. He
will come around and contact you nonchalantly but O surprise, you
will have better to do. As it stands today... the river of life is
flowing and changing. He COULD wake up from drifting along but I
don't feel that. YOU will do well if you stop putting your life on
hold! You can take him into welcoming arms if and when the time
comes! But until then don't waste time! Learn and enjoy new things
and places. Get going!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle
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Name: LJ
Day: 13
Month: March
Year: 1949
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle... So it never too late to make a
complete life change? Especially when your instincts say go
right ahead despite the obstacles. I know that I must prepare to
reach out for this. This time I am not putting it down as too
hard and walk away negatively. Rightly I look forward to the
outcome.
We live and
learn they say... you've learned the lesson well LJ! Never too late!
Right!
Now for more living and learning!
Bountiful Blessings!
Elle
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Name: SS
Day: 18
Month: March
Year: 1972
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle Hi! I'm in the midst of life changing
circumstances (leaving my marriage) spawned by the desire to be true
to myself. I feel that the one I love is going through a similar
time. My wish to move on was sparked by my certainty that he and I
were meant to live a relationship together. (we are not in contact
and have had horrible timing over the past 12 years.)Although I am
certain of my decision to move on, how do I know if my conviction
about him is real and not simply a delusion?
Dear SS,
leaving your marriage to be true to yourself is the right optic...
it must not depend on being with your soulmate or anyone else. That
might even have the opposite effect. Although your feelings have not
been in balance, you have been and will be together again in other
lifetimes so in a sense your conviction is real. It is not written
whether you will find each other long term in this life...either.
There is the question of synchronicity at play. So do things in
order- if you must leave your marriage because it is not a marriage;
then do it for yourself and by yourself. Then live with yourself and
enjoy yourself -by yourself. Then contact him and let him know that
you are out on your own and have been for a while. That will leave
the responsibility of a terminated marriage on your shoulders not
his. You will find out the answer then. So far, at this point in
time, I don't see a serious long term relationship developing. But
that is fine, give yourself time to grow and don't forget to stop
and smell the roses!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle
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Name: J
Day: 5
Month: January
Year: 1967
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle...
I have been married for a great number of years and I believe my
marriage has died, however, I am finding difficulty in moving on.
If i could afford to rent or buy a place on my own I would do so for
the place that I am staying in is currently being rented.
Can you see any way out of this situation? If so, do you see me
possibly buying a home, because I was told by a medium that the
spirit of one of my grandmother's would help. Strange, but true, I
did hear and see numbers in my dream.. noted them down.
I would appreciate your guidance into my future.
thanks and god bless! xxx
Hello there J
!
If you read my replies to other "nieces'' and ''nephews" herein, you
will see that I don't believe in marriage at all cost but in your
case, there is some work to be done. Go to the pros. Communication
has broken down and the magic is, well. in a coma. Your dream to own
a home is not futile.Even on a tiny budget, finding a home that you
can buy with financing and monthly payments that you can afford
should become a hobby of yours. Believe in that you can is half the
battle! You will be buying instead of renting... which means
investing toward the future (even for your old age) instead of
paying rent to remain temporary- that says a lot doesn't it? Have
either of you believed in your marriage enough? A starter home would
be anything you can afford. Then fix it up to please a majority of
potential buyers. Then sell it and buy the next step up and go from
there all over again. First things first; open up communication with
your husband. No accustation matches! You will need guided
communication because you are both stuck in a rut and neither of you
are really happy but neither of you can manage to do anything about
it. Consequently, you both may end up starting new relationships to
escape the rut only to fall back into the same patterns. If you work
with a professional marriage "doctor" you will make progress and you
will both change for the better. You each have compensation habits
that should be changed and new reward habits to enjoy together
should be created. Even if you end up going your own ways... you
will then at least not be headed toward similar downfalls...and you
will each have something to show for it!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle
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