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Week 4, 5th May 2008
 
Name: dd
Day: 13
Month: October
Year: 1964
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle... the man in my life wants sex without
committment... am simply in love with him....but from deep in my heart i
feel that am not a sex object... i want really a very close and worthy
relationship... a man i can share my heart too... sex is also imp but
not the sole thing.. are there any chances of such closeness with this
man ... pl if u cd ans i wd be glad from bottom of my heart... sorry
troubling u again. am in fix should i continue my relationship with this
man or quit
 Oh
my wonderful "niece" dd! Please don't worry about bothering me! I wish I
could answer everyone's questions! You must tell him you are not looking
for a fun fling... that you deserve commitment and that it is what you
need to have. Don't take any half-baked excuses or faux commitments. You
should have a man ask you to marry him! You deserve the 100% REAL THING!
He should introduce you to ALL his friends, and family. He should be
obviously proud to be with you! He should want to move mountains to have
you! If he does not do that or if he even dares to do it begrudgingly;
he is definitely a no-no and he doesn't deserve you! You already know
what to do sweet dd so do it and be happy you did; you will get exactly
what you deserve!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle |
Name: LF
Day: 7
Month: September
Year: 1973
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle... I met a guy last year, it wasnt supposed to
be anything serious or emotional but we had this amazing connectiom, he
said it freaked him out. As if we had always known each other. Why is
there this phsychic connection. We havent seen or spoken in months but I
can feel his thoughs and I wondered why this happening? What does this
mean?
Hi LF
You know, the Almighty is not for us to limit or define and has "many
houses" just as the book of our "life" has many chapters to be lived...
you are living one now so it is normal for the characters that appeared
in the chapters in your "book" should reappear in later chapters. He was
not necessarily your Love - he could have been a brother or any other
key character. You have met before and will certainly meet again. Wait
and see. Don't worry, be happy!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle
PS Go to our forum and search for the threads about soulmates; there's
so much to be learned!
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Name: AS
Day: 9
Month: August
Year: 1984
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle...
I've been single for a long time and now I've met someone whom I like very
much. Do you think anything will happen between us? If not do you think
someone will come along for me in the near future. It's hard to stay
positive sometimes! Thank you so much Aunty Elle!
Double yes AS! It's all good! One at a time though LOL. Each will be a
milestone on your path BUT 3 is a charm! So you know how to count- no
worries!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle
PS Don't forget to use the cartomancy or tarot here. Get used to it.
It's very helpful for learning to listen to your intuition and little by
little you will be able to see where you are going much more easily.
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Name: ld
Day: 8
Month: April
Year: 1978
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle... 30 year old single female. Not had much luck
in the love department and all my friends are settled down. I have done
my traveling around for now but want to really meet someone. But because
i have been unluckily in the past find it hard. There is someone i like
and am afraid to approach him in case he says no or im not his type and
im not even sure if he is single but i think he may be. Should i just
ask or wait and see if he notices me. HELP!
 Dear
ld; my mother always said it can't hurt to ask: they can only say what
you hope to hear, or not... or even better!
Just find out and then go from there. You are remarkable! You have a
little way to go on your path before you get it right... you know what?
You almost got it right! Practice makes perfect! Join the club, dive in,
you'll end up by swimming! You know how to listen to your inner voice;
the one that says: "Red light! Red light!" or: "This could work." and it
does, for a while... you're in school, just like the rest of us.
Life-lesson after life-lesson. It took me all of 55 years' worth
of life-lessons to find my soulmate! You'll do better! Each lesson you
learn prepares you for the rest of your life. That is why the same thing
is reproduced more or less, if you didn't get it the first time. That's
the hard part- trying to figure out what happened... if we keep on
choosing a mate who is not free, for example... it could be a doctor,
then a married man, then a man who cannot leave his mother, then maybe a
priest or an archeologist married to his diggings etc etc... You just
have to figure out what your lesson is and I feel that you have or it is
on the verge of dawning on you. Yay! A new dawn!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle |
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Name: D.D.
Day: 17
Month: October
Year: 1976
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle...Hi I have a serious situation with a
ex-boyfriend of mine.I am still in love with him. But he has made
mistakes and so have I.His mom gets in the way of our love too.What
should I do to get him back if I can?What can I do to prove my love to
him?Is there any hope?Thank you so much Elle.
 Oh
D.D. He is not for you! At least not now... a HUGE LOT of water still
has to flow under the bridge! He is still like a kid- all his good
resolutions will fly out of the window at the least temptation! (Why
does a Jerry Springer show come to mind when I think of him?!) His
mother knows... and she is not helping him grow up either. He should be
the one to prove his love to you... but he is far from really ready- no
running after or "proving" anything will really get back his love. It's
not really LOVE anyway.
There is not much you can do to help him on that slippery slope and in
fact you'd probably slip and get hurt yourself; you know I'm right. You
just miss that kind of relationship- not him.
Stop trying to convince yourself! You MUST believe in yourself more! YOU
have grown up and now you are ready for better! You deserve so much
more!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle |
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Name: KJ
Day: 13
Month: April
Year: 1980
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle,
I am wondering if I am ever going to get married. I am very frustrated
right now. It seems everyone around me is married or has a significant
other. HELP!
Whoa
KJ! Hold your horses!
Wait until towards the end of 2010 or beginning 2011 just keep your eyes
open and be ready!
Have fun growing now, don't jump the gun just to blend in for Heaven's
sake! Your soulmate is not ready for you yet and you are not ready
either, slow bloomer LOL You will find helpful food for thought in some
of the letters I have already posted here. Anyway you must stop moping
and searching so desperately; work on yourself... inside and out- for
yourself!
"Build it and he will come."
Enjoy it all!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle |
Name: TS
Day: 2
Month: February
Year: 1978
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle... Will my internet business be successful as i
plan it to be
Dear
TS
Please do use the other free oracles on this site for yes or no
questions... In such a case as yours there are a lot of "if's" involved
on a regular step by step basis so the flux of events can be modified at
each decision since each one is important with a domino effect right now
more than ever.
Bountiful blessings!
Elle |
Name: elm
Day: 16
Month: June
Year: 1959
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle... I don't want to follow someone's else's
dreams or demands for me, yet I need guidance. Often people say I should
be in careers involving helping people. I am very creative. I don't want
to help people as a nanny, nurse etc... . I actually want to use my
gifts, and let aiding people be an aside. I actually believe some people
just don't want me to succeed and their motives aren't pure.
Dear
sweet elm...
They are wishing you a sure thing... They don't trust your lucky star
and they really think you'll be safe in those jobs. They don't believe
in your talents, it's true, and a little sad for sure, but you must
remember they haven't believed in their creative selves enough either!
They pick safely and without risk (so they think!) for themselves as
well, so you can't hold it against them. Nevertheless, it is indeed a
sort of poisoned jinx advice don't you think? For they are planting the
seeds of doubt in you! They are saying don't aim for the moon, you'll
never get there! They are asking you to aim for the other side of the
street in the same neighborhood! When I went to Paris to act and paint I
got the same thing from friends and family and to this day they feel
uncomfortable that I proved them wrong. It seems they were happiest when
I was going through rough times. I'm not saying that I was a huge
success but I love the life I lived then and now, the memories I have
and the ones to come. Don't be too upset with them now nor in the
future; you see, you will remind them that they didn't even try to live
their dreams- and that is something they sorely need to forget because
remembering is too painful. So be creative but don't rub it in LOL
Bright blessings!
Elle |
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Name: Loary
Day: 4
Month: May
Year: 1955
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle...
Today started out raining, now it's cleared up to be a beautiful spring
evening. Wish I would enjoy it though. My heart is so heavy; I broke up
with my ex-husband/signficant other last November & am just feeling it
now. It took so long because Summer was our season, our connection.
Don't get me wrong, he's no prince charming & frankly, just not nice to
me and unable to commit to anything. I think that's often referred to as
a 'loser.'
Still, it's spring, I miss being out on the boat and I don't quite know
where to start getting my love life back on track. I am sad and
depressed and quite frankly afraid.
I don't think you can help me, but I'm glad you were there when I needed
to vent.
L.
Hey
Loary! ...
Bravo for you... SO FAR!
Glad you could vent! So now get out there on a boat! Learn to do water
stuff that you never did with your ex! Go to a music festival on the
beach... be a butterfly until you find the flower in the heart of a good
man who'll commit officially on one knee with all the trimmings and
who'll want to be nice to you until the end of time!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle
Oh, PS: Check out my letter about internet soulmate hunting in last
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Name:
C.M.F
Day: 10
Month: November
Year: 1991
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle... I met a guy named Jeremy a few months ago. I
really like him and he knows that I like him. As much as things haven't
changed and we all laugh and have fun together, I want to be with him.
Three of my friends have very different advice and trying to see what
his actions are saying doesn't do much for me either. My best friend is
convinced that we will get together soon and her boyfriend isn't really
sure. Then my friend since elementary school says that I should forget
about him. As for trying to read his actions one minute I think he likes
me and another minute I think he just wants to be friends. Another part
of me feels like he's leading me on and I going to go to school and find
out he's dating someone. I did cartomacy and it said that somebody that
I'm close to is deceiving me. I want to know if I should wait and see if
wants to get with me or if I should let him go immeadiately? Is he worth
it?
Oh
sweet C.M.F.!
Your best friend has wishful thinking for you and she is telling you
what you are hoping to hear. Her boyfriend knows guys better and he
doesn't want you to get your hopes up for nothing. The thing is, this
guy is fickle and immature so you could get with him soon but lose him
just as fast.
You are more
intuitive than you think! You KNOW you should drop the idea of getting
with him and find a better guy who can do fun stuff with you and be with
you in sports and hobbies as well as the whole boyfriend girlfriend
scene.
Bountiful blessings!
Elle
Soon cm soon... just don't try so hard!
Enjoy yourself and people in general... an old lady could be the one to
lead you to yor soulmate...
Just live and learn and grow. Love will find you!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle |
Name: Gaurav
Day: 27
Month: September
Year: 1993
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle... I just want to one thing.
I have an aim in life,that is to become a tennis-player.Will I be able to
become a player.
YES
Gaurav! ...despite what may seem like huge barriers.
Anyway I know that actually playing tennis is not the only barrier. Just
handle each barrier at a time as it comes, and they will not keep you
from becoming a tennis-player. Keep at it, regularly, but watch out for
your tendons and your joints; fix what needs to be fixed and take care
of your body- don't overindulge in anything even practice; if you miss a
day, don't try to play twice as much the next day. Just don't skip
again!
Take some other kind of lessons like a martial art that would keep you
nimble, combative yet detached... very good for emotional control to
keep anger, disappointment or frustration away and for how to be neither
too proud nor too humble. If you have a problem with a move/swing (in
tennis or the martial art of your choice), work at it and then let it
rest and do whatever else you do well, then, at the end of practice try
once more your "problem" sequence or movement; if you succeed, stop
there. If you haven't got it yet go through the movements in slow motion
in your head and then actually go through them in slow motion (without a
ball of course LOL) and stop there. Sleep on it and then try again right
after warm up. If you get it right once, then try to reproduce what you
just did. If it's not quite right, go through the sequence again in slow
motion and this time try once more. If you succeed or not, go on to
something else... then in the middle of practice go through this again
but try 3 or four times and then do something else. Then again at the
end of practice try again just once. If you succeed stop there. If it's
not right, visualize yourself doing it "correctly" then go through the
motions again in slow motion but don't actually try to do it. Then in
the evening, visualize again, in bed, with your eyes closed, just before
falling asleep and again in the morning before getting started on your
day.
You may even dream that move! A good sign! By the way, there is a high
tech game that simulates tennis matches... good exercise!
Have someone film you then slow it down and study compare what your body
actually does that is different from slow movement practice.
Also compare with somebody who does it the way you'd like and compare
with both your slow motion practice and your actual playing... if you
get that far you are already on the right path so persevere and live
your dreams!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle
PS I am going to tell you what I actually told Yannick Noah in the
Roland Garros "Village" after he had beaten Pecci. Hm-mm 1982 or 3?
"Don't let it get to you. Keep the same cool frame of mind as when you
just played. Don't let any doubts or wondering invade you. (He looked
like he had the weight of the world on his shoulders, sitting there
alone, on a little wall, looking down at his raquet spinning between his
hands) Hey, just enjoy the game, enjoy analyzing your opponents' style
and coolly choose what you must do and then do it. Let nothing get you
down and let nothing inflate your ego; play like each game is the first.
Stay alert yet detached.'' I saw him again several times, but then we
were into music!
Oh and he won the tournament!
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Name: Ellie
Day: 10
Month: February
Year: 1972
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle...
I may be as mad as a hatter but I think I have someone from above looking
after me and that they are going to make all my dreams come true and I
am going to have my heart's desire which will ultimately help me and my
family and my ambition to help thousands of other people in desperate
need for help. Am I imagining this or is it for real?Thank you for your
valuable time!x
LOL
You sound exactly like me at your age! And here I am! So... more power
to ya sista!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle
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Name: Andrea
Day: 9
Month: February
Year: 1988
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle,
I am head over heals in love with my ex who is also the father of my
child. We had a rough past though, he kept chosing his first baby mama
over me. Then during my pregnancy i never heard from him. When our
daughter was a month old he came back into our lives. He was a good
father and boyfriend. We planned our future and wanted to spend the rest
of our lives together. He started acting like he did before when he left
me so i broke up with him because i just cant let go of the past even
though i love every inch of him. Now i miss him more than he'll ever
know but im too proud to ask him to be with me again. Should i just let
it go? Can he really love me like i want him to? or is he a no good baby
daddy? his birthday is 8/14/1983
Andrea
honey, you already know the answer... he won't change and you won't be
able to trust him. He came around 1 month AFTER your baby was born when
he could get some sugar and all the trimmings didn't he? He didn't visit
you when he should have, with a ring and him down on one knee... He is
too selfish to love you the way he should. He will tell you all kinds of
nice things but talk is cheap! All his beautiful talk about the future?
Just words! He'll have another child with another woman too.You deserve
so much better! Take care of yourself now and get some help so that you
can be proud to say that you are managing. You will meet a kind
responsible man who will make you smile again a little later on. Right
now you have to get ready!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle |
Name: sl
Day: 19
Month: April
Year: 1969
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle...I am first wondering about my love
life....next I am wondering about my animals. I rescue horses and now
have 4 horses and 2 mules. I want to keep them all but wonder if I
should. Would they like to stay?
You
know sl, your animals feel that you love them. They trust you. Even when
they have spats they are happy you have them. You can keep them... try
to get some financial aid for them and let some people (perhaps autistic
or Downs Syndrome children and/or neighbors' children) visit in return
for donations... (a old fashioned looking wooden donation box with a
padlock attached to the fence at adult eye-level with a friendly message
on it is the image I got) look for benevolent veterinary help too
perhaps from last year students or something like that... but not
exactly... (I got a vague image there).
As to love, what you have now won't do at all! It seems that your
four-legged friends will play cupid and be instrumental in helping you
find your longterm soulmate as well!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle
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Name: miki
Day: 26
Month: April
Year: 1982
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle...
HI and thank you first of all, if anything this will be good to get off my
chest as I cant tell my real aunty or she'l have me straight down the
church for confession
Anywho... I have been having a relationship with a married man for just
over 2 yeras now, and I know it's wrong but there's something that I
cant put my finger on that keeps me going back to him or me letting him
back everytime. I have never felt this with anyone else and altho young,
I have been involved in long term relationships before but nothing has
been as intense as this.
Now he has a daughter with his wife but until yesterday we still had
contact. I told him how i feel and he has told me he loves me. I know
our relationship has been more than a physical one because only once
have we let it get that far and that was only recently! I told him to
delete my number but now Im worried that i wont have him in my life
anymore, even as just a friend.
I really dont know what to do?!!!!!!1
OK
miki, my friend, I wish I could wave a magic wand and make you happy
right now! Believe me happiness and bliss will come in another man's
arms. So please,for your own sake, talk to God about it but no need to
talk via anybody on earth, just talk directly to God and say how you
feel - the good and the bad, the guilt you've had to deal with and how
you felt about doing something that you consider wrong (you do know that
"getting that far" even in thought, amounts to the same thing as
actually doing it- as far as guilt is concerned, don't you ?) and how,
at the same time it felt so wonderfully thrillingly right? A human
pitfall... Guilt, even when we refuse to accept it consciously, can
wreak havoc in our subconscious and cause all kinds of problems. Ask God
to forgive you for your part in it and then forgive yourself. You have
had this kind of relationship in past lifetimes and it never did you any
good. The man has always said he loved you and has considered you as a
sort of vacation from his married humdrum life and has never thought of
giving a thing up for you except once and then it was only empty words
just to keep you hooked. The intense part is the forbidden side of it.
So many people get divorced to be together and then after a few months
of an un-forbidden relationship, they realize that all the spice and
intensity is gone! And there they are, wondering what to do...and you
know what? They start cheating again! and again! You are worth so much
more and you deserve so much better! No need for that kind of
thing...and don't lie to yourself... you can't just be friends. You will
always have that forbidden fruit fantasy between you, and sooner or
later you will give in to it. You need to find yourself an intense
romantic man who is willing to move mountains to be yours and for you to
be only his, always! That is what you must reprogram and prepare
yourself for! No crumbs from someone else's table! You deserve the whole
banquet from invitation to desert! Just for wonderful you!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle |
Name: S.J.B.
Day: 7
Month: October
Year: 1968
Comments: Dear Aunty Elle... I would like some peace of mind.I am worried
as the cost of living is rising our morgage is now very high cause of
interest rates and my husbands job has fallen thru.I work but its not
enough we have 3 boys.It would be wonderful if we didnt have to struggle
and eventually own our home.Can you help please.Thankyou and many
blessings...
Hello
S.J.B.
Times aren't so easy these days but we can make it! First of all for
Heaven's sake DON"T HIDE your situation from ANYBODY. You should be on
all your neighbors', friends', and family members' prayer lists! THIS IS
NETWORKING TIME!!! No time for the traditional "Let's not talk about it"
mode and no time for crying and playing the "Isn't it awful" game! It's
time to get looking for solutions and you're already off to a great
start. Think of all the people reading this, sending up prayers for you
and yours and all the positive vibes they are sending your way! The more
people are thinking about your family's needs, the more ideas, tips and
OPPORTUNITIES will obligatorily come your way. It's sort of priming the
pump of the bounties of the universe. Often times when I did that,
miracle jobs feel into my lap "out of the blue" and seemingly one could
think that all that networking and exposing my ''secrets'' was not
necessary- but it was! That's the way it works. That's one of the ways
how the synchronicity cogs of the universe are set in movement. Here's a
HUGE tip- how you speak about what's going on: Say ''My husband needs a
job'', not "My husband lost his job." NOT: "We are short $*** a month."
but rather: ''We need to have a monthly income increase of at least
$***more." Say "We need lower interest rates and lower monthly payments,
what can your company do for us long-term or on a short, say,
5-year-term basis?" ...The mortgage companies are paying dearly for
accepting to finance homes that were too close for the financial comfort
of their customers and now everyone is in a pinch even without the loss
of a job in the family! But all that company is no help to you is it? OR
IS IT??? Check on the new plans for lowering your payments AND your
interest rates that have been set up due to this generalized economical
situation. Be positive; remember that it's bad business for them to have
so MANY of their customers on the rocks! If the company you have won't
budge, NETWORK, ask everyone who they'd suggest and then follow up on
every lead both for other finance companies' mortgage help and jobs for
your hubby.
Your husband will find a job if he changes a few habits (you know which
ones I mean) and looks for a new professional direction too. He must
realize that he can do many other jobs than what he has in mind and that
it will be an opportunity instead of a pitfall if he just starts at it!
Now you, yourself must stop some modern habits too for the time being...
Go shopping for EVERYTHING (including presents) you can in thrift-shops
and on craigslist and such places. Never believe that this or that is
cheaper because it's on sale. Compare! Your hubby can make that a hobby.
He will be saving your household a fortune! You can also sell things you
have not used for over a year. Some grocery stores have meat on sale:
30% and 50% off... don't go imagining that it's not fresh, it is, AND
you can freeze it if you count on eating it within a month. Check
Google, Amazon.com and e-bay... surf for everything. Your hubby can do
that while you're at work between job hunting and the chores! ...IF he
is indeed playing the game fair! Get your boys to pick what they don't
use and have them sell the stuff to pay for things they want to have or
do. Get your (4) boys in on your penny saving efforts, even if it is
only symbolical. It's good for them! Can collecting from neighbors, car
washing, or selling cookies or a lemonade stand set up under your
hubby's supervision... Keep 'em busy! Your hubby has to chat up everyone
he meets then, explaining that he is teaching a life-lesson to his sons
and that while he is looking for a job all four of them are working
together to help the family budget... an excellent responsible attitude
that will be very helpful to your family and your hubby's job hunting.
He must have his name and number on cards or paper (with a long list of
all the things he is skilled at) to distribute, keeping a positive light
attitude at all times. Facing anything is half the battle and it can
even be fun!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle |
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