Free Tarot Reading

Name: jc
 Day: 12
 Month: September
 Year: 1969
 Comments: Dear Aunty Elle...
 I am an artist and single mom ,torn between ny art scene and the carolina coastline's inexpensive living , still seeking much in my career and for true love ...any advice on direction
 

jc!

Go to Carolina's coastline and be one of the if not the biggest artist fish in that pond instead of the NY oceanful of aspiring ones! Your true love will be on that path anyway. Then later on, you will be able to hop back to the Big Apple and take a big bite out of it!

Bountiful blessings!
Elle

Comments: Dear Aunty Elle... I work with this guy who i am deeply attracted to. we get on brilliantly. The problem is he is a teacher in my son's school, although my son will be leaving there in three months.keeping these feelings to myself is absolutely killing me. What do i do ? do i talk to him about it and take the risk of looking like an idiot, i don't know how to deal with this situation. I tried ignoring him but that just made him upset. WHAT DO I DO !!!!!


Hi LM,

We don't want to upset him now, do we? If he says anything say that you will have to answer after your son leaves there. You can even mention with an impish smile that you are looking forward to the near future when you and your son will no longer be attached to him professionally. That would leave a door open for him to say, " ...and personally?" Otherwise, wait until the coast is clear professionally and ethically; then visit him to get acquainted on a private basis or invite him to have some coffee or tea in a more interesting place than a chain coffee shop... perhaps in a museum of some sort... what an adventure!

Bountiful blessings!
Elle

Name: vg
 Day: 18
 Month: January
 Year: 1969
 Comments: Dear Aunty Elle... this guy told me he loved me then dissappeared.we get close then he always runs what is his problem?

Well hi there vg!

Although he is no longer a child, he says things that he means at the moment, then scares himself and runs. He just cannot get to attachment and commitment. Check out the book, "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus." It explains this masculine phenomenon and how to deal with it. Or look for a man who knows how to get past that. It definitely hangs in the balance and is up to you. There is more to you than meets the eye...

Bountiful blessings!
Elle
 

Name: mm
 Day: 6
 Month: February
 Year: 1970
 Comments: Dear Aunty Elle... i met the love of my life sept 06 we fell in love the day we met, everyone was happy for us, then late last year my 20yr old daughter kept telling me that she'd been told lots of nasty things that my future mum-in-law was saying, i found it hard to believe at first but as time went on i believed it, this caused me & R to argue for the first time, it went on for 3 months then things came to a head in feb, i told him it was over, i later found out my daughter had made the lot up, she lied & ruined my happiness, i now dont talk to my daughter & have begged R to come back, but he says ive hurt him to much & she'll cause us pain again, im dying inside, ive lost my best friend, my lover, my one true love in him & my daughter to, i just cant let her back into my life, she has caused me nothing but pain & heartache since she was little, my heart is broken & now R has put himself on a looking for love website, i love him so much, ive told him this, my heart & soul are destroyed. will i ever get him back ?


Ah mm;
It is indeed a really bad thing for a daughter to be so jealous of her mother that she has to ruin it all! Your daughter has sewn the seeds of her own unhappiness which will be life-lessons for her growth. It could take your daughter 10 or 11 more years, even with a husband and a child of her own to stop envying you. You must let her live her life and you live yours. Tough love... like mother birds who must teach their offspring to fly by pushing them out of the nest or stopping to feed them! Tell her to get with her soulmate and be happy; then maybe she will wish the same happiness for you. Something in her makes her unsatisfied with her own destiny and there is nothing you can do right now to help except tell her that.

As for your man: write him letters, e-mails, cell phone texts, singing telegrams, send flowers or balloons with messages: "You will be my one and only love, no one will ever come between us again, no one will ever count more than you do if you can only see fit to feel the same way about me. Neither my daughter nor anyone among your family and friends nor my family and friends should ever come between us ever again. We should be best friends and lovers - allies, facing the world together, defending and loving each other- now and always-My daughter is an adult and if she cannot stand to see me happy it is her problem. My daughter needs to seek psychiatric help (it's true) but she is out of my life for the love that I hold in my heart for you. I have been hurt too and you should never ever doubt my love just as I will never again doubt yours. People don't just simply replace soulmates like they would replace a dog. Our love is unique and anything else would be much less and much worse than second best. Let's be strong and dare to give us a chance! I am waiting but if you have let your love for me simply die like a starving fire; if their is no spark, no hope, please just tell me to my face - eye to eye- so that I can grieve for us both." --- Something like that. Nothing whiny or begging. That is all you can do. Nothing more, love cannot be commanded at will. If you run after him any more than that it will do no good -he will look down on you and lose all respect he has left for you anyway. You have learned a lesson, so this is positive and there are new roads opening up for you whichever way this evolves.You have a loving heart; if he can no longer feel love for you then he is no longer deserving of it. It is in his hands. It is hanging in the balance. You are doing everything in your power to give him a chance to choose to walk the path with you, nevertheless, believe me, you are not a loser whichever his choice!

Bountiful blessings!
Elle
 

Name: Mehri
 Day: 25
 Month: March
 Year: 1980
 Comments: Dear Aunty Elle...
 I have read your answer.thank you very much for your good advices.
 please let me ask you a question:what do you think about love?is there a real love in our world?i have had a very bad experience that every time can move tears from my eyes,every time and every night,every where,what can I do in these sad moments? all of great people tell us listen to your heart,I trust to my heart voice and did one thing,he was attractive ,I saw him when I was a passenger ,he wants talk to me ,I saw him and my heart told me :he is himself,get him,he is ..,but after our really great relationship we have dissented,why?i could smell the aroma of love from him,he was from heaven,but every time when we wanted to be together every thing disassembled.we felt that universe is against of us,he told me that at night he asks god:why did you show me her and then cause separation between us?and this is my question too.why god show me him?
 I am thirsty for love and money,yes I want them because I think these things can cause my broken heart be happy and joyfull again.
 Thank you again my dear.i pray for you because you listen to our talks and make us happy.please tell me anything else :what do you exactly do?what does mean this : Nothing is written in stone
 best regards for you
 mehri

Dear Mehri, you are welcome...

"Nothing is written in stone" means that although there is a Devine Plan for us, there is also free-will which affects the river/path of our lives. When a question is asked of any psychic or oracle, the answer comes in the present context, however if anyone makes a life-changing decision, the answer can change and be "re-written" so to speak... that is why learning to use tarot for oneself is so important. You can ask the universe about yourself, see your faults and even ask questions like, "What will the outcome be if I am so preoccupied about wealth?" or "What will the outcome be if I choose **** ?" ...then you can see and rewrite your own story simply with a firm decision!
I believe in love- many kinds... I also believe that some loves are sent to us to wake up our hearts, to bring us back to life, to reveal something to us, to save us in some way, to strengthen us, to test us, to give us the will to carry on, to teach us something about ourselves or about LOVE so that we will be ready for what is to come.

Bountiful blessings!
Elle

Name: Jules
 Day: 25
 Month: May
 Year: 1977
 Comments: Dear Aunty Elle... I dont know where else to turn for help; I am in a major bout of depression - I am not sure what is going on with my ex-husband, I am still in love with him but apparently he wants nothing more to do with me (even though he keeps "popping up" in my life) because of his humongous pride. I just moved, am living alone and it is really depressing. Besides numerous work pjojects pouring in, I don't really want any of it. I am late on deadlines and am in a serious bulimic relapse (it is totally out of control). My psychiatrist has changed my antidepressant but really, I just wnat to know if there is hope - i have already been through so much...when will it end????
 

Hello my sweet sista Jules!
It's time to fight for your old self... wait a minute ..it's time to fight for your new self! ...hey, maybe it's good to change antidepressants... but I'm getting more like it's time to change psychiatrists! Scary huh? I also feel strongly that you've got to attack depression like an enemy that's got you cornered. What do you do when you're cornered? You stop being the victim and fight back!
Once, when I was a child, sitting in the back seat of my parents' car, stopped at a red light- I saw a mouse and a cat- (not a cat and a mouse) The former had been cornered by the latter. It was a long light. The tiny mouse was on its hind legs and the cat was trying to catch it with its teeth, taking swipes at it, all claws out. The mouse kept jumping at the cat's nose, making the cat jump back; then the mouse finally bit the cat's nose, and the cat, shaking its head, ran away to lick its paw to clean its bloodied nose, giving the mouse ample opportunity to get out of the corner and clean away to live better mouse days. Get the picture? The cat is depression and you are going to fight back. First, you need to get your body chemistry to help you. It will take a few days but it will be worth it. Ketosis dieting is the key. Google it. Research it...and just DO IT! It will give you a sort of euphoria (which you sorely need right now while losing weight, gaining energy and if you don't drink enough water:bad breath.. it's the price to pay! (you can google ketosis bad breath too) You will NOT be hungry! You will be able to eat A LOT ...really! It will save you - things will start to seem more fun and/or interesting- deadlines will be met... work projects pouring in? Get at it and tackle the most inspiring and the least ordinary! Oh and exercise! An old thrift shop exercise bike will do but I have a hunch you can get a cool one and listen to your favorite energy music to your heart's delight. That also will supply your body with Happy Hormones that will energize you instead of making you lethargic with brain fog... yay! You will get through this... your hubby needs to remember he's your ex although he is suffering from the Richard Burton Syndrome. LOL He doesn't know how to deal with your changes... nice enough man just not strong enough in the sense that he has not been able to tame - or help you. He doesn't know which foot to dance on! Neither do you for that matter so you haven't helped him much either ... sigh.. Oh well. first things first... get lovin' life again. Why should living alone be so depressing? You are living with your best friend (OK right now, sometimes your worst enemy but that will soon be behind you) so get creative and enjoy it! Pamper yourself; do something for yourself that you've always wanted to do and never gave yourself "permission" to do. Enable yourself! Reprogram yourself to confront adversity. You deserve it! This has been a long hard stretch of life-lessons in cascade! Now is the time reap the benefits and you know what? Once you get at it, it's going to be fun! Yup! No doubt about it. Any doubts? Let's have a look. Even in the face of adversity, if we have fun dealing with it, it loses its sting!

Plutarch said that Fate leads us when we follow it and it drags us when we resist.

We all have a path to find and many meandering wanderings possible. We grow and sometimes we feel blessed with miracles and signs that point the way while others let us know we are already on the right path at last. At other times we feel we have gone way off road and avalanches threaten as we desperately wonder which way to go.

This is the beginning of a brighter path right here! I've said that before and it's true; you've taken the first step on a New Path that you chose yourself by coming here and writing to me: Synchronicity in action!

Brightest blessings!
Elle

PS When I was in a spot much akin to yours, a brand new book appeared on the street, in front of the gallery where my paintings were sold... it was called "The Artist's Way" - it helped me to the next step on my path. Just saying....

Name: Mary
 Day: 30
 Month: January
 Year: 1975
 Comments: Dear Aunty Elle...I am worried sick about a man that i feel deeply for in prison. He has been in jail for more than two years and we have kept in touch by letters and a few visits. After the last visit i was so amaized and happy about him telling me about how our future will be. I was so happy i couldnt say a word because if i did i would cry. I have been waiting a long time for him. Before he went "in" he didnt want to commit to me as he knew he would get a long sentance(four and a half years)now that he got his parole, he will be out soon, in four months.I havnt seen him for four months and the last letter he wrote me he said that he will contact me to go visit. i am afraid that he may have changed his mind but i cant ask him that because i dont want to seem insecure. He sent me a great photo of him from in jail and i was wondering why. What I am asking is, will it happen will we finaly get together get married and have kids?
 

OH DEAR! Mary! You two have such huge odds against you! All I see are ominous dark clouds with rain and tears.

Whatever could make the sun come out!?! You are loyal and courageous but that will not be enough... UNLESS you both are able to move away and never ever see one single person who has known your life until now. Parole officers can help in that direction. A new point of view, a new lifestyle, and new jobs. Trying very very hard just won't work. A total turn around with clean start in a new place is the only solution. If he chooses to get out of Dodge with you, down on one knee with a proposal RIGHT AWAY there is a chance for happiness.  

He is insecure right now and needs to make enormous life choices.  If he can only muster up the courage and resolve! His whole future lies in balance- nothing is set in stone. He must choose his path and you must be extremely careful... You deserve a kind, loving hard working provider who will not be angry or bitter! You are so special! Don't ever forget that! Hugs!
 

Name: tmh
 Day: 18
 Month: August
 Year: 1969
 Comments: Dear Aunty Elle... I have been very much in love with a man I met some 4 years ago. He reciprocates my feelings. We have been best friends, companions & have worked with each other. Unfortunately, I met him only days after he had entered into a marriage. He was not at a good place in his life when he decided to "settle"--thinking that he was always going to be alone. He does not wish to hurt his partner, and neither do I. Financial concerns prevent him from abandoning his partner as they have entered into an extensive construction project on the house. I too have some factors preventing me in this relationship--although I have remained single for 16 years, I was divorced and it was messy. My family (parents) have held any inheritance in the balance over my head. They are elderly, and so eventually, time will cure this problem--I love them, but I don't agree with their religious beliefs nor their attitude toward my happiness. They have been wonderful parents; but their has always been a string attached to everything. FBW, (person with whom I am in love) is a wonderful man who has had a difficult life. His DOB is 05/07/56. I have been patient, knowing that all things worth having take time. Waiting, however, is not easy. We were meant to be together--but how to accomplish this in a way with the least negative outcome??
 

Well well tmh...
This is what I have to tell you ... what I am obliged to tell you because the words just won't leave my head...
This is a true story. A friend of mine divorced her husband, to be with her ''soulmate'' because her "soulmate" asked her to. He couldn't stand sharing her with another man albeit her husband. Her ''soulmate'' showered her with luxury gifts and they went to the finest restaurants and traveled to the most beautiful places together for 25 years. He bought her an antique business in the same antique mall as his. They also shared work together for 25 years; they had lunch together and went "home" together for dinner or dined out...and then at 9 or 10 p.m. he would go home to: his wife. Shortly before I left Paris, my friend discovered that "her" man had another younger mistress that he was keeping who was expecting his baby. He was very depressed because he had prostate problems and was obliged to face his age and his mortality- not depressed because he had 3 women and their children whose life he had touched and changed, but because he could not continue to lead the same lifestyle... my friend was hurt but she said that she had finally stopped admiring him that she had fallen out of love- she said that she was thankful for everything she had learned, her business... and regretted nothing of the life she had had with him and she said that she was looking forward to being a free woman again at the age of 62. Fortunately she has a good income and is still a very handsome woman who leads an interesting life of luxury.
If you are able to take each day as it comes and enjoy it while contributing to his happiness as well as to your own without forgetting long-term security and your own goals to be an independently happy person all the way through your life... planning as if you can count on no one except yourself (because it is the case)... then life will be good and most of your surprises will be happy ones. It will be his responsibility not yours to ensure his wife's wellbeing as well as yours. Nevertheless set up plans for your security. Children, on the other hand will have a hard time in such a situation. Take that into account. It is all that I have to set before you, up to you to partake of it or push it away!
Bountiful blessings!
Elle

 Name: sherrie
 Day: 20
 Month: March
 Year: 1975
 Comments: Dear Aunty Elle...
 i am a singal mum of four children and i love them all but i get this feeling that i am meant to be something more than a mum; but i have no idea what or where to start.could you help as i have been in a world of just being a mum i have pushed my own life aside what do you see for me thank you sherrie
 

Hi sherrie,

You know, there are so many people who write and ask me 'yes' or 'no' questions and questions that involve and depend on multiple life-path choices for the answer to remain steadily the "right" one. In your case, you should use the free tarot here and ask the universe to help you delve into your own unknown and forgotten talents and wishes. No one has ever been 'just' a mum unless they settled into that cozy procrastination... oh how I would have liked to! If you think back, you will find that you were more and did more than be 'just' a mum. Whew, did I ever have to fight to be a mum! But that is another story.... when your 4 birdies are flying on their own, even if they come back to the nest for Mothers' Day and other special occasions... they will leave a gaping void if you don't live your own special life using your own special talents. What example will you set? What will you have to show them other than a dusty doting mum and Grand mum? What did you dream of doing? What dreams did you push aside? What did you even barely start doing that you gave up? What talents did you acquire, discover or develop? Make a list and then go to the tarot and ask about the path of each one for you. Then follow the paths that interest you even further with the tarot. Ask questions like: "If I go in the direction of 'X', how will that affect 'Y' ?" or "If I resolve to be and actually am less 'A', will I achieve 'B' ?" and "What will the resulting 'picture' be if I follow the path of 'Z'?" Even if you cannot read like a reader does, you will get the gist. You will discover that doing this is an excellent form of meditation and mind de-muddling. You will be finding yourself more talented and intelligent than you ever dreamed- this is you tapping into your purest self. Prepare for your new life by trying this or that direction that you feel attracted to and learning to consult the tarot. The Chinese say, "The most difficult part in succeeding the longest voyage is the first step." You will find your path when you finally dare take the first step from pondering into action.

Bountiful blessings!
Elle
 

 Name: dnro
 Day: 12
 Month: October
 Year: 1959
 Comments: Dear Aunty Elle...
 I have two men in my heart one who is very responsive and loves me back in everyway imagineable, but the other one is almost none existant-why do we want the one we can not have? Any way my question is about the quiet one: do you see or feel I will be with him in the future or is it over?
 dnro

Oh dnro,

The quiet one has so many issues to face, so much growing to do! Your nurturing instincts are attracted to that hidden side... but you cannot be the one to help him grow. In fact you would fall out of love with him if you were present when he does grow so no regrets there... He makes you dream but his dreams are elsewhere. You are two ships crossing on the sea of this life, next time round you may be on the same boat...
Perhaps this yearning for elsewhere of yours will hurt the tender man who loves you. He will hide the pain as long as he can. He is brave and doesn't deserve to suffer; what a valliant prince charming you have! Why keep on kissing toads when you have the real thing?!.. or do you think you all you deserve is a toad? I don't! Now REALLY!

Bountiful blessings!
Elle
 

 Name: Sunshine
 Day: 31
 Month: August
 Year: 1979
 Comments: Dear Aunty Elle... I have been off and on with my child's father for a very long time. I have always felt a really strong connection with him, since we met 8 years ago. Sometimes I think he is the one for me and at times I feel like I deserve better. I'm not sure if he's sure about what it is he wants and if that would include me. He tells me that he wants me to be his wife and I want to get married and have a future with him. Does he love me? Will we ever get married and have a family together? Or should I forget about him and move on?
 

Hello Sunshine!

You will be sunshine to another man whose whole world will light up because you are in his life, just as he will be your only sunshine too. You have done what you were supposed to do and traveled the path with your child's father long enough for you both to learn the lessons that you were supposed to learn. Now it's not exactly that you deserve better... you each deserve 'different' so as each to BECOME better- and it seems that only separate paths can enable that to happen. Although he talks, he is not ready to move into action. Unless he straightens up his act and gets the show on the road, when your ex becomes ready for marriage; however, you will have already moved on toward other sunny, bright horizons.

Brightest blessings!
Elle

 Name: Mirjana_MO
 Day: 8
 Month: November
 Year: 1971
 Comments: Dear Elle,
 
 Could you please tell me if there is a romance in sight for me?

Yes Mirjana, there is...

Just keep your head on your shoulders with your heart and body in your own possession for as long as you can since it seems that the first arrival will, in a sense, hide your soulmate... so stay charming yet reserved! ...and keep your eyes open!

Bountiful blessings!
Elle

 Name: gc
 Day: 13
 Month: August
 Year: 1956
 Comments: elle, help me.ok soon.

Dearest gc

I read your messages, and I answered in length twice; each time my computer shut down deleting everything. It was meant to happen. Please write again. I will reply. You will overcome!

Bountiful blessings!
Elle